You could also call her a "red potato"...who gives a shit. It doesn't change what she is or isn't. Why are you crying over the specific term being used here?
The fact of the matter is that she is here and hasn't went through the proper procedures on moving from one country to another. The point she brought up and the reason it has been brought up here is to discuss the issue of what to do / how to deal with people who have moved to our nation without going through the procedures we have put in place to sanction their movement. At no point in time is she, nor anybody here really interested in what the **** you want to call them.
FALSE! You couldn't be more wrong. First of all, talking about what illegal aliens are called doesn't mean that you're not concerned with what to do about them. How you could arrive that is something that psychiatrists might work on.
Secondly, of course it matters how are they are called. The term
"undocumented immigrant" is a euphemism, purposely designed to give validity to these lawbreakers, as well as legalization to them. The idea is if we think of them as being legitimate, eventually they will get legalized. They should be neither legalized or euphemized.
Lastly, you'll do a lot better in this forum without the F bmbs, which do nothing more than reveal you here to be the rookie you are.