Feed them, make lots of love with them, and save the deepest conversations for your next best friend. This is the beauty of a good man. We fail, when we make them our lives.
I don't think your compatriots are listening to the first two points at all...
Probably why we aren't listening too well.
Making love with a man is the best thing in the world, if it wasn't I would be a lesbian. (not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just not *my* thing)
Falling in love with your best friend is the way to assure a great relationship,
and then the mind blowing sex will be the icing on the cake (so tospeak!)