I only have two eyes. How many do you have?
Some years ago I was attacked by a big guy because he was jealous I was dating a woman who he wanted. He was MUCH BIGGER than me but I have strong arms. We ended up on the ground and I knew that if I couldn't subdue him he'd beat the crap out of me. I squeezed him so hard (there on the ground) by pinning his arms to his sides. He just couldn't get loose. I kept him there until I felt his body slack so I let go with my right arm and punched in the face with as much strength as I could muster, then I quickly grabbed him again and started the whole process over again. Was I cheating? The moral of that encounter is that when you get a good grip in a fight, don't let go unless you can get an even better grip or finish him off.
You can go cry now.