What the school employee was entirely wrong, but I’m wondering about something else here. The say the child is autistic and nonverbal, and I wondering what sort of school this is and are they trained to work with autistic or is he just shoved into a regular classroom?
Well this is a three year old, so I don't know. I do know that Least Restrictive Environment means that these students ARE put in gen ed classrooms and, when they kick, hit, bite (yes), spit (yes), and throw things, they are usually sent right back.
Because as soon as they're rendered "stable", Least Restrictive Environment says they have to go right back.
I'm sounding a gong here that everyone is ignoring. Because it's a huge, huge, HUGE problem. If there is one issue I would pull my child from public schools for, it IS NOT "woke" stuff. It is actual physical danger presented by other children, which we (because we love victims in our society) brush under the rug because the perpetrators have "issues", "diagnoses" or what have you.
Let me tell you.
If your 6 yo daughter gets a black eye at school, that eye is blackened whether the child who did it has a dx or not.
But if the child who did it has a dx, when your daughter tells the teacher "I don't feel safe with him in the room", she will get a big, fat shrug.