Okay so, if it's not just sex, and not love... then what? Best friends with benefits?
It's two people who believe that life is supposed to be lived a certain way, with certain roles and standards for Men and women. People who believe that single adults are effectively coins with only one side (head or tail) printed on them, and that like a coin it's only when they are joined together that they gain real value. I am the breadwinner and she is the homemaker. I am the Leader and she is the supporting staff. Together we make a whole unit, whereas apart neither one of us has anywhere near the value we have together. Oh, and she is at least as on-board with this philosophy as I am. Probably more.
Oh and if you don't mind... how old are you and why don't you believe in love...?
I turned 41 last Friday. She will be 35 next March. We known each other for a little over three and a half years and been married for almost thirteen months now.
Due to personal issues (medical and personality) I learned early on in life to see the darkness in the hearts of people. That made me suspicious of this idea called "love". Then as I started to get a little older I realized it was most often used for one purpose..... To support and defend the most ridiculous, illogical, and flat out stupid decisions that people make. That's why I don't believe in love.
