Damn I almost got the kitchen sink tossed at me for having an affair while I was in the service, maybe I should have went to the Feds myself and accused the Military of violating my constitutional rights.![]()
Well, that starts a whole new discussion about whether or not the military should be getting involved in "private" matters. Major Witt wasn't simply charged with adultery, but discharged under DADT. In 20 years I only saw ONE GUY go to Mast for adultery and he was an officer sleeping with the wife of one of HIS men. He did not get a discharge.
I think they need to get out of private matters and I say this because the Military does absolutely nothing when the civilian spouse of a Military member is cheating, the civilian spouse can have a gangbang in your living room and there is absolutely nothing the Military can do, I talked to an Air Force legal aide on this and they said their hands are tied until the Military member files for divorce, and even than the dependent can stay on base for 30 days getting their freak on, it might be different from base to base but this is what I was told at Vandenberg Air Force Base, when there was rumours going around that I was cheating I was threatened to cut it out or I would lose some rank behind this, and possibly my career, they even contacted the woman I was cheating with and talked to her on the phone but she was smart enough to deny even knowing me.
This reminds me of when my son was stationed with the 101st Airborne a few years ago (he's now training for Special Forces). His wife would tell us stories of what alot of the wives were doing while their husbands were in Iraq and it just made her sick. They want the wives (or husbands) at home to stand by their soldier, they count on them being there when they get home...and my son knows of one guy that got off the plane and as soon as he was close to his wife he started beating her for messing around while he was gone. The MP's let him go home once he settled down, and the next day he killed her.
Oh - and if you go out and get a really bad sunburn...so bad you can't wear clothing over it, they can give you an article 15? for doing damage to military property!! wow!