Conservatives aren't telling people who they can marry. Homosexuals have always had the same right to marry as heterosexuals Rock Hudson was married , so too was Dr. Sally Ride. No one stopped them from marrying.
That
is telling them who they can marry. "You can marry anyone you like...just so long as
we approve"
No one had to give Rock Hudson approval to get married. No one had to give Dr. Sally Ride approval to get married.
Sure they did. The approval was implicit. That's why as soon as homosexuals started marrying homosexuals, you totalitarians who think you have a right to tell people who they can, and can't marry ran off to your respective state houses as fast as your gay-hating legs would carry you, and rushed through changes to the marriage laws to include the phrase "between one man and one woman", because you couldn't stand that men, and women were marrying people that you didn't approve of.
Why are you linking to a hate site? Can you link me to a manufacturer's catalog so that I can see what a transviaginal probe looks like? I'm also curious about legislation mandateing all women be probed.
So, are you suggesting that the story was wrong? That what the story talked about
didn't happen? If so, then by all means, offer the evidence refuting the story.
The second presumes that every man who has sex "decides to become a father".
You really should refrain from putting quotes around fabricated statements and then arguing against the strawman you've erected. It's offensive to people to have quotations attributed to them that they didn't make. Here's what I wrote:
Once men have sex, then they must accept the consequences which arise from their choice, so if the woman becomes pregnant, then the man will be a father.
Here's the quote you fabricated and attributed to me:
"decides to become a father"
Actually, I wasn't attributing the direct quote to you; I was attributing the attitude to you, and placed it in quotes to indicate that the attitude was not mine.
There is a world of difference between deciding to have sex equating to deciding to be a father and deciding to have sex and accepting the risk that one will become a father. You understand this elementary logic, don't you?
No, there really isn't. And, even if there were, your premise is still wrong. Most men, and women too, do not "accept the risk" of unwanted parenthood just because they have sex (yes, that one
was a direct quote of yours). Not only do they not accept that risk, most people don't even consider it. I don't know anyone that goes out to dinner, and has the following conversation:
Man: Hey. I think you're hot.
Woman: hey. I think you're hot, too. Would you like to go home, and take the chance of an unwanted pregnancy, and risk spending the next 20 years raising a kid you never wanted?
Man: Why, yes. Yes I do. Let's go to your place, and try making babies all night long!
I'm pretty sure that just doesn't happen. In fact, people use all forms of birth control to see that exactly that
doesn't happen.
I'm talking about a decision that comes with possible consequences, not assured consequences.
But, you see, that's just it.
Pregnancy is a possible consequence.
Parenthood would only be a possible consequence if you fanatics were successful in stopping women from doing what they want with their own bodies.
Men and women face the same risk at the time they decide to have sex. They could conceive a child and they both know this when they decide to have sex. The man is bound by the outcome, he doesn't get a do-over. Are women children that they can't be held to equal standards when it comes to adult decisions to have sex?
No they don't. It's not the men that have to spend the next nine months turning into blimps, dealing with massive water retention, having their entire hormonal system go haywire, dealing with morning sickness, and all of the other side effects of pregnancy. It's not the man that has to force a 10 lb, foot-and-a-half ball of fury through a 26-inch hole for 2 to 8 hours. Hell, the man doesn't even have to
stick around five minutes after he finds out the woman is pregnant. So, please do not insult our intelligence by suggesting that "Men and women face the same risk at the time they decide to have sex." Because they don't. Not even close.