You know.........I've never had a Buddhist tell me that I'm going to hell for not believing in Buddha.
I've had MANY "Christians" who have been eager to consign me to a life of being dammed and eventually put into hell forever if I don't accept Christ as my savior.
And, I've never had an atheist tell me about the big nothing at the end.
You know......Buddha could've cared less if you went to heaven or hell, why would most of his followers?
(not all don't possibly care, just sayin)
Those "Christians" who are telling you about hell are a way better friend to you than you could ever possibly imagine. Yes I realize you probably don't believe me, but one day you'll know. Please allow me to try to share more...
Though you
think it is a message of hate (about hell), quite the opposite is true. Though yes, there is a gentler way to witness the Gospel, just by sharing what Jesus Christ said and His love, His truth, or just by caregiving, serving, being there, etc. Though some do preach to unbelievers about hell, but for some that is needed. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. This is a reverant fear and respect and being humbled by God, not the type of fear that doesn't trust or believe in Him.
I'm not sure if you are Atheist or Jewish, or neither, or what, but you do understand that many Christians believe the Bible entirely about hell so that is why they share it with you, right? It's not like they are out to "get you". They really believe the Gospel, that you will go to hell if you do not know (trust and believe in) Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.
Please try to remember that even though it doesn't feel like it, most of these "Christians" may be forgetting all about "self" and rather thinking entirely about YOU. Because many Christians witness most of the time knowing that when they witness to you about Jesus Christ, which includes heaven and hell, that you may reject them, make fun of them, falsely accuse them, or falsely think they think they are holier than thou, when they don't. There's also usualy an underlying conviction there that most unbelievers feel, but it's not from the person witnessing, any good conviction is from God Himself - pulling, tugging, knocking on your door. The person witnessing is not trying to condemn you usually (or hopefully not, but could be false teachers or wolves), nor can they condemn you, as the opposite is true.
There is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus. None of us are "better" than one another, none of us are "holier than thou." We're all in the same boat. Hence, we need or Lord, who made us, who guides us, who loves us and teaches us how to love.
The Gospel shows we are
all sinners, and that through Jesus Christ alone we are saved. Through Christ alone are we made "righteous". That our "works" are as filthly rags. We cannot claim our "own righteousness" - that is what the Pharisees did.
That is the whole reason many (or most hopefully) are trying to witness the truth of Christ to you, out of love, care, compassion. Yes sadly there are some who preach for vain reasons, or they may preach the Gospel in contention, but even so, as the Bible says, it is good that the Gospel is still preached.
As for atheists, I've met all kinds. Some who speak out against Christians and falsely accuse them and demand there is no God, or can't wait to point out a sin (when they need to get the plank out of their own eye), and some who just are atheists, and don't get involved and whom are very kind to Christians.
Over all, a person either receives the Gospel, or they don't during their lifetime. And no "man" can
make another "man" believe, but can only witness. The Revelation of Jesus Christ comes from God Himself to each soul but He calls us to share and witness about Him.
And The Lord knows our hearts and when we are humble enough to receive Him, instead of kicking against Him.
BTW, NONE OF US GO TO HEAVEN BY BEING "GOOD". Because all of us fall short of being good. If we could get to heaven by being good or following the law alone, there would be no need for a Savior, would there? Or rather, how could any of us get to heaven by following the law, we've all broken it. Do you know one person who hasn't broken at least one of the 10 Commandments? We ALL have.
Jesus put it quite simply when He said:
John 8:24 - I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.
John 3:36 - He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him.
Links:
Is Jesus the only way to Heaven?
How can I not go to hell?
What is the Romans Road to salvation?
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