I don't own a gun and I even refused one as a gift when I was in law school at night in DC after my day job. It was a derringer. I grew up in a house with guns in it in northern New Jersey. My father had them and even allowed me to site them at paper targets when I was a child under ten and then he pulled the trigger. He also taught me never, ever to point a gun toward another human being. Neither were we so badly off that he had to kill animals, so he never hunted.
Should I, as a woman, buy a gun? women have been subjects of aggression for all of time, even by relatives. Other folks have been subject to aggression on the basis of race, religion, ethnicity. Should we all be heavily armed?
Buy a gun, yes.
All the women in my family are armed and carry daily.
There is no better equalizer than a firearm.
You don't need to be heavily armed if you think your government has your best interests in mind. Most of us don't believe they do, so we are prepared.
I did not believe that government had my best interests in mind when trump was in charge, though I had better faith that this was true before the trump administration and, now, I have better faith now that Biden is in charge. It's been a long while since I was a teenager and in my 20's, but should I have shot people who pushed me into walls and shoved their tongues down my throat or bit my ass through jeans and underwear, leaving a bruise? There would have been several very dead young white men.
If a person decides that she wants or needs an abortion, should she come armed? Same question if she becomes romantically involved with someone who is physically abusive. Same question if a black or brown person is approached.
I guess I don't quite understand your question.
Did you feel like your life was in danger at any of those times?
A person going for an abortion may feel threatened by anti-abortion terrorists, so why not?
If one is romantically involved with another person who becomes physically abusive, yes, deadly force may be necessary. I have seen far too many women put up with unspeakable physical abuse with no way to escape.
Does that answer your question? What exactly are you getting at?