Your words would have validity during the continued prejudice of the Jim Crow era. I’ve read enough to know that social differences between the 60’s and now within the US are hardly comparable. Am I claiming that there is no racism in the United States? No, I am not.
You need to look at your own words that are hurting Black people calling other blacks, who take responsibility for their own livelihoods, Uncle Tom’s. Didn’t that overly used phrase go out in the 90s with stand up comic routines eventually dropping it from their acts? Why are you still try to make it a thing, like it’s a good thing in any shape or form? Who does that benefit exactly? Be specific, does it benefit you? Does it benefit your family?