The definitive word on "gay"marriage

[nt250]

I wasn’t there and I don’t know all of the details but I think that if the lesbians created too much of an uncomfortable work environment, they would have been fired. If they started to behave like two sex-starved dogs in heat, they would have been removed. I just don’t see that much of a double standard for gays versus straights.

You totally missed the point. Those two Lesbians had every right to act, do, and say anything they wanted to. But what they didn't have a right to expect was that nobody would ever object to it. That's the point.

By the way, this story actually has a humerous ending. Those two Lesbians broke up a couple of years later. One of them ended up falling in love with another co-worker who had lived with a man for 12 years. He also worked for the company. We were all techs together. This woman, I'll call her "Ann", is the one who invited me to the party. I wasn't about to expose my 5 year old to a bunch of Lesbians.

I got promoted and I heard a couple of years later that they had a re-arrangement at work, and due to union rules the lowest seniority person was going to be forced to re-locate to another location that meant a slight pay cut. So the bi-sexual, who left her boyfriend after 12 years to move in with the Lesbian, and the Lesbian (who was low seniority) went to management and claimed that the former boyfriend was harrassing them.

He had more time in the company than both of them, and guess who got transferred? Yup. He did.

On second thought, that's not funny at all, is it?

 

[Outsider]

You totally missed the point. Those two Lesbians had every right to act, do, and say anything they wanted to. But what they didn't have a right to expect was that nobody would ever object to it. That's the point.

By the way, this story actually has a humerous ending. Those two Lesbians broke up a couple of years later. One of them ended up falling in love with another co-worker who had lived with a man for 12 years. He also worked for the company. We were all techs together. This woman, I'll call her "Ann", is the one who invited me to the party. I wasn't about to expose my 5 year old to a bunch of Lesbians.

I got promoted and I heard a couple of years later that they had a re-arrangement at work, and due to union rules the lowest seniority person was going to be forced to re-locate to another location that meant a slight pay cut. So the bi-sexual, who left her boyfriend after 12 years to move in with the Lesbian, and the Lesbian (who was low seniority) went to management and claimed that the former boyfriend was harrassing them.

He had more time in the company than both of them, and guess who got transferred? Yup. He did.

On second thought, that's not funny at all, is it?

Didn't you have sex with someone you worked with as well? What the hell is in the water over there? Seems like none of you can keep your hands off each other. :kiss2:

 

[nt250]

Didn't you have sex with someone you worked with as well? What the hell is in the water over there? Seems like none of you can keep your hands off each other. :kiss2:

No, my lover was a lawyer.

But, yes, there were quite a few mini drama's going on. We went on strike in 1989 and we all started hanging out at this dive bar. Aside from being out of work and having to live off my 401K and an under-the-table job as a dishwasher in a restaurant, it was a great time. We'd picket from 7:30AM until 9:30AM and then we'd head over the bar and start drinking. We had a lot of fun.

Everytime I hear that Sheryl Crow song with the line "I like a good beer buzz early in the morning" I always look back very fondly on my bar days.

 

[Outsider]

No, my lover was a lawyer.

But, yes, there were quite a few mini drama's going on. We went on strike in 1989 and we all started hanging out at this dive bar. Aside from being out of work and having to live off my 401K and an under-the-table job as a dishwasher in a restaurant, it was a great time. We'd picket from 7:30AM until 9:30AM and then we'd head over the bar and start drinking. We had a lot of fun.

Everytime I hear that Sheryl Crow song with the line "I like a good beer buzz early in the morning" I always look back very fondly on my bar days.

My mistake, I could have sworn I read a very explicit description of a one night stand between you and one of your co-workers once upon a time.

And anytime your ready to either defend or retract your statement that someone making a homosexual advance leads to the logical conclusion that they would later that day rape or murder a 5 year old, I'm ready to hear it.

 

[ScreamingEagle]

How could it not have happened to anyone else? If Joe Smith were working that day instead of me when that man came it, he would have probably been propositioned.

I wouldn't be stupid enough to allow this masterbating pervert (you said it was obvious) the chance to ask me for sex. He'd first have to deal with my not-so friendly face and answer my loud and not-so nice demand as to what-the-hell he was doing there. I'm sure it would've instantly destroyed his "mood" and he would've beat feet outta there pronto.

You, on the other hand, don't recognize perverts in your lala-world so instead you just moseyed up to the creep and got hit on. If you got kids, you'd better learn how to avoid perverts so you can teach them how to. For them it could be a matter of life or death.

 

[nt250]

My mistake, I could have sworn I read a very explicit description of a one night stand between you and one of your co-workers once upon a time.

And anytime your ready to either defend or retract your statement that someone making a homosexual advance leads to the logical conclusion that they would later that day rape or murder a 5 year old, I'm ready to hear it.

Here on this board? I've told many stories about my escapades over the years but I don't think I've ever told them here.

I never said that making a homosexual advance was an indication that someone would rape and murder a 5 year old. What I said was that anyone who would act that way is not normal. It's not even normal behavior for a homosexual. Unless it was a gay bar, gays don't go around rubbing their dicks and propositing total strangers. Even I don't believe that.

I guess the only context you could possibly find this something to not be concerned about would be if it was a gay bar, a sex shop, or a porn store. And aside from the gay bar, I would have found that type of behavior worrisome enough that I would have called the police.

 

[mattskramer]

You totally missed the point. Those two Lesbians had every right to act, do, and say anything they wanted to. But what they didn't have a right to expect was that nobody would ever object to it. That's the point.

Okay. I see. Yeah. People (gay and straight people) have every right to act, do, and say what they want to as long as it fits within the rules of the business within reason. People even have the right to object. If I work with a redhead who wears “loud” clothing, I might say that I don’t like such clothes or that I don’t like redheads. If I take it further and say that it is evil to wear bright clothing with red hair and that I despise people who do so, I might be going over the line with my free speech. Likewise, I’m tall and thin with short black hair. My coworker might say that she does not like that look. If she proceeds to say that she hates me for it that might be going over the line. Free speech has its limits and there should be moderation. Still, I have yet to see a true double standard.

 

[nt250]

Okay. I see. Yeah. People (gay and straight people) have every right to act, do, and say what they want to as long as it fits within the rules of the business within reason. People even have the right to object. If I work with a redhead who wears “loud” clothing, I might say that I don’t like such clothes or that I don’t like redheads. If I take it further and say that it is evil to wear bright clothing with red hair and that I despise people who do so, I might be going over the line with my free speech. Likewise, I’m tall and thin with short black hair. My coworker might say that she does not like that look. If she proceeds to say that she hates me for it that might be going over the line. Free speech has its limits and there should be moderation. Still, I have yet to see a true double standard.

Um, Mutts? Don't ever tell a woman you don't like her clothes or her hair. It's rude.

 

[mattskramer]

I wouldn't be stupid enough to allow this masterbating pervert (you said it was obvious) the chance to ask me for sex. He'd first have to deal with my not-so friendly face and answer my loud and not-so nice demand as to what-the-hell he was doing there. I'm sure it would've instantly destroyed his "mood" and he would've beat feet outta there pronto.

I’m somewhat of a literalist and I was surprised by his apparent body language. I wanted to get in his face and really understand what he wanted. I wanted him to tell me what he wanted.

You, on the other hand, don't recognize perverts in your lala-world so instead you just moseyed up to the pervert and got hit on. If you got kids, you'd better learn how to avoid perverts so you can teach them how to. For them it could be a matter of life or death.

I had my suspicions but I could have been mistaken about his intention with respect to me. You generalize. If children were with me, I would have behaved differently.

 

[mattskramer]

Um, Mutts? Don't ever tell a woman you don't like her clothes or her hair. It's rude.

No fair! No fair! Double standard! Double standard! Do women have permission to tell me that they don’t like my clothes or hair? LOL.

 

[Outsider]

Here on this board? I've told many stories about my escapades over the years but I don't think I've ever told them here.

I never said that making a homosexual advance was an indication that someone would rape and murder a 5 year old. What I said was that anyone who would act that way is not normal. It's not even normal behavior for a homosexual. Unless it was a gay bar, gays don't go around rubbing their dicks and propositing total strangers. Even I don't believe that.

I guess the only context you could possibly find this something to not be concerned about would be if it was a gay bar, a sex shop, or a porn store. And aside from the gay bar, I would have found that type of behavior worrisome enough that I would have called the police.

Men grab their crotch. Big deal. No one was there but this "abnormal" person and Matt. Hell, he could have been making an adjustment, saw Matt looking at his crotch with intent, and whipped off a sarcastic "Do you want to **** me?" as a response. Who knows.

 

[nt250]

No fair! No fair! Double standard! Double standard! Do women have permission to tell me that they don’t like my clothes or hair? LOL.

No, they don't. But they have the right to tell each other. It's in the Constitution.

 

[Said1]

Men grab their crotch. Big deal. No one was there but this "abnormal" person and Matt. Hell, he could have been making an adjustment, saw Matt looking at his crotch with intent, and whipped off a sarcastic "Do you want to **** me?" as a response. Who knows.

B-b-b-ut you wouldn't get close enough to slap him and won't say it's 'normal'. How about you get that shovel and start shinning.

 

[nt250]

Men grab their crotch. Big deal. No one was there but this "abnormal" person and Matt. Hell, he could have been making an adjustment, saw Matt looking at his crotch with intent, and whipped off a sarcastic "Do you want to **** me?" as a response. Who knows.

LOL. You're giving all men a bad name here, Outsider.

I'm 47 years old, have worked mostly with men for 20 years and I've never once had one of them grab their crotch in my presense.

At work anyway. :happy2:

 

[Said1]

In high school, there seemed to be a lot scratching, though.

 

[ScreamingEagle]

I’m somewhat of a literalist and I was surprised by his apparent body language. I wanted to get in his face and really understand what he wanted. I wanted him to tell me what he wanted.

I had my suspicions but I could have been mistaken about his intention with respect to me. You generalize. If children were with me, I would have behaved differently.

Myself I saw that as taking a stupid risk, especially since you said you were alone at the workplace. The creep could've had a weapon. First thing you teach your kids is not to walk up to strangers.

 

[Outsider]

B-b-b-ut you wouldn't get close enough to slap him and won't say it's 'normal'. How about you get that shovel and start shinning.

Wont say what is normal? I wasn't there to judge if what this rubbing going on was "normal" or not.

As a woman, if a man walked up to me, rubbing his crotch and asked me if I wanted to **** him, I would stay as far away from him as possible...yes.

But a man touching his crotch area through his pants does not shock me, and no I don't find that abnormal. And I don't believe I would be watching him closely enough to determine that he was simulating masturbation, as Matt suggested.

What the hell is "shinning"?

 

[Outsider]

LOL. You're giving all men a bad name here, Outsider.

I'm 47 years old, have worked mostly with men for 20 years and I've never once had one of them grab their crotch in my presense.

At work anyway. :happy2:

The man in question was not "at work" by the way I read Matt's post. He appeared to be an unknown person who entered his place of employment.

Have you never seen a Michael Jackson video? :tng:

 

[Said1]

Wont say what is normal? I wasn't there to judge if what this rubbing going on was "normal" or not.

There, there. I know you weren't there and can't judge. Thanks for trying.

What the hell is "shinning"?

It's slang. Don't worry about it.

 

[Said1]

NT, do you know this "Outsider" person from another board?

Outsider, who's your favorite Outsider? I loved Dallas. He was so sexy and angry.