One doctor commented that the best exercise for losing weight is pushing away from the dinner table.LOL!
Its true. Eating smaller meals helps alot. When I eat at a restaurant, I only eat half of what they serve me.
I take the rest home to eat later.
Exercise. Excess calories that you take in have to burned off. If you exercise regularly, you can pretty much eat what you want within reason and with some moderation. Exercise also helps to keep you firm when you lose weight.
There have been so many studies on this subject, but most of them are paid for by various industries, like gymns and diet companies, so there is no single set of conclusions.
I know when I was in the infantry, with 3 mile daily runs and PT every day, I remained over weight by Army standards the whole time I was in. At each new unit I would be put on a weight reduction program and then get taken off of it as soon as I was given a body fat test. I have a lot of muscle mass, even more back then, being able to bench 350 pounds with little training and leg press over 600. Even two years ago just before I slipped my discs, I could bench 300 pounds after a couple of months of work outs.
But not only are there different ratios of fat to muscle by individual, but our bodies are not dynamically static in how it burns energy. When you deprive your body of needed calories, the body shifts into 'starvation mode' and clings to every calorie. And even if you do starve yourself down to a goal weight, as soon as you resume normal average calories, your body will pack away every calorie it can into fat cells to return to what it thinks is normal.
The basic problem is that we consume too many carbs. Prior to WW2, high carbs were good things to eat as most people did not get enough food and had low energy. That is what made Coca Cola and Pepsi Cola a great success, as those soft drinks quickly put energy into your body. Back then, if you were put on a diet it was to GAIN wight, not lose it.
Our economic and agricultural success has brought us into an abnormal problem of too much success.
All a person needs to do to lose weight is avoid carbs, walk a mile a day 4 days a week, avoid industrialized sugar, get plenty of sleep and dont worry about it.