What I want to avoid is a situation like roe, where the courts ruled on a right to privacy, and the leftist activists said "it's law! Abortion is settled law!".
I'm not advocating against gay marriage, I'm just trying to be crystal clear on the role of the court, and careful about what they say, because for 3 decades, we were recognizing a "law" created by scotus, which was really just the left creating that narrative, which scotus doesn't have the power to do. So, yes, maybe I am harping about the language, but it's that language that gave us 30 years of "law" that should have never been.