Oh, and I've told my kids to never get stuck in bathrooms with weirdos. If there's one in there, get your ass out and hold it until they're gone.
There's a weird older girl at school that, although she got my daughter in trouble by LYING about her...seems to really like her! This girl (who has extremely bright pink hair, btw) has no friends. She is always sitting near my daughter, she talks to her as if they are buddies (and talks to me too) and everytime I look up she's looking at my girl, or at me. Not in any malicious or scary way...she's just looking.
I think she admires my daughter.
It does't matter, she lie about my girl and my girl is in no way immune to saying shitty things in bathrooms given the opportunity...
So I told her not to use the bathroom at practice. She goes when she gets there, with me, and if she goes some other time she either goes with me or with another adult.
My point is, my daughter is the one who is allegedly *the bully* in this case. Because she was targeted by a weirdo (her mom is weird too, omg) who happens to ALSO seems to want to be close to my daughter...
Where am I going with this? Two places....don't make your kid a target. Don't encourage your child to posture and make him or herself some sort of controversial symbol at school.
#2, the whole bullying fad is today's *hate speech* movement. The goal is to make it illegal to in any way, shape or form criticize fyor even identify immorality or depraved behavior....and to make it illegal to defend yourself from attack (including physical attack) from any person who identifies with any of the favoried groups (queers, trannies, felons, blacks).
I have made it clear to my daughter's teachers and to others that I am not interesting in hearing *bullying* accusations leveled against my daughter, because what is I see is that the term *bullying* is used to justify *bullying* others. You push them around, they respond, and you run to the authorities adn whine "so and so is bullying me and made me feel REALLY uncomfortable". Automatically, the kid who defended herself is labeled a bully, and everybody handles the psycho who started the mess is some sort of angelic creature who now must be elevated to almost divine status.
It's ridiculous Teach respect, expect respect, and quit encouraging kids to act out the sexual fantasies of their parents in school. The world would immediately change for the better.