There is the desperate ploy of the traitorous socialist. Just because you dont agree with handing over your individual and state rights you are a racist. Hey joe do me a favour and take your bigotry and shove it
Hey, guy, the whole "State's Rights" was the cry of the racists all the way up until the 1960's. They kind of gave the whole "State's Rights" thing a bad name.
first, no "individual" right is being lost. No one is ever going to make you have a gay marriage if you don't swing that way. (Although it has been established that most homophobic men are latent gays).
Second, the "State" doesn't have a right to tell people what their relationships should be.