Most of them want the word and social acceptance that comes with it as well. When offered civil unions the activists didn't want that, they wanted marriage.
Agreed, they wanted to 'ram it up their asses' & 'FORCE' them to accept their relationships / bonding as equal. Even if the USSC ruled everyone MUST consider the relationships/bonds you can not TRULY force people in their hearts / religious beliefs to accept them as 'equal'. People of true religious conviction will never truly accept homosexual marriages as 'a union blessed by God'. They would accept the relationship as one viewed by the government as legally, lawfully equal, giving them the same LEGAL benefits as traditional marriage couples.
IMHO...
Marriage isn't a union "blessed by God". Marriage is a civil contract, blessed by the state, conferring certain rights and obligations upon the participants, all of which can be enforced by a court of laws, in any state in the nation.
Gays don't want "civil contracts" because they don't offer anywhere near the rights or protections of marriage. Civil contracts are state, not federal contracts. None of the protections of provide in federal marriage laws, are offered in "civil unions". Even worse, the relationship isn't recognized outside of the state which granted the status. If a person wants to avoid the financial obligations to my civil partner in Ohio, they can simply move to New York where the contract is unenforceable.
But the biggest reason why the gays needed to RAM IT DOWN YOUR THROAT, is because of sickness and death and medical care, property and family rights. It was not uncommon when a gay partner became ill and incapacitated, for the parents of gay people to swoop in and assert their "next of kin" status, and take over the care of the gay child, banning their partner from the hospital. The gay partner is the one who knows their spouse, their wishes, what they need, not the homophobic family. There have been instances when children are involved where the grandparents take their grandchildren away from their suviving parent, and destroy the family.
This became a HUGE issue during the AIDS pandemic, where the patients were often young men in their 20's and 30's, and families were hateful to the partners because they blamed the lifestyle for the death of their sons. Before gay marriage, if gays adopted, one partner's name was on the papers, not both. The surviving partners had to fight for custody or even access of their children. Similary, with lesbian couples, the birth mother had rights, but not the partner.
This is gay marriage advocates will never settle for a "civil union" and demand the full on protections of a legal "marriage". And as a one half of a straight couple, I can honestly say that that the fact that gays are allowed to marry has had absolutely no impact on me, the members of our church or anyone else. So the idea that gay marriage has any impact on the lives of those who believe it's wrong, would be a flat out lie. Those in the marriage services business who refuse to provide services to a gay couple who are not getting married in their home church, is no infringement on their right to worship as they see fit.
As a divorced woman, there were any number of churches where I could not get married for the second time. So Churches are being forced to marry people they don't believe should marry. I got remarried in the Presbyterian Church. Kim Davis, the woman who wouldn't issue a marriage license to gays, had been married 5 times. Hardly a model citizen for making good decisions in her life.
Also, her Christian Church, doesn't allow divorce, and considers remarriage "adultery". Does the 5 times married Mrs. Davis also refuse to issue marriage licenses on "religious grounds" to divorced couples? Because if she does, her religious argument goes right out the window.
If any of these "Christian bakers", and deeply religious types are providing marriage licenses and wedding services to other sinners - adulterers, blasphemers, liars or thieves, or other sins named in the 10 Commandments, then their claim that their "religious freedom is being compromised", is bullshit. This is simply homophobia and hate hiding behind the 1st Amendment, and claiming religious freedom to continue to violate Jesus' first law - do unto others as you would have them do unto you.