shadrack:
The use of the word "phobic" is not the issue. It is the addition of the prefix "homo", for the disingenuous purpose of creating a definition which does not exist, that rankles me. Again, "having a phobia of homosexuals", I could accept. It's honest. It doesn't even begin to hold water, but it's an honest attempt at a definition. "Homophobia" is convenient. By that daffynition, anyone who refuses to accept homosexuality as an orientation - no better or worse than any other - is somehow "phobic". But, can't you see how problematic it is? By that yardstick,either, A) humanity has - unknowingly - been phobic for the entirety of it's history, or, B) homosexuality has lately acquired a new nobility.
Then again, there's C):
Most Americans are "live and let live" types. Homosexuality has, throughout history, been regarded as a perversion. Although homosexuals comprise only 2-3% of the population, they account for a staggering 25-40% of child molestations. Their almost exclusive culpability in the introduction and spread of AIDS throughout America cannot be seriously debated. It is a dangerous and destructive lifestyle. Yet, for all that, most Americans aren't interested in condemning ANYONE out of hand. "Live and let live", we say.
That's simply not good enough for homosexual activists. They don't want, "live and let live", damn it - they want ACCEPTANCE! They want CODIFICATION! They want LEGITIMACY! "I'm just going to mind my own business" won't do it. No - it has to be "Yours is an orientation given you by nature, and is, as such, no worse than my own; probably better, in fact. To the degree that my innate feelings, my teachings, and the words of the one I call God condemn your actions as unnatural, sick, and dangerous, I am in the grasp of hateful bigotry".
Does that sound like the mantra you'd like to chant, shadrack? Because that's what they're after, and they won't be satisfied with anything less.