more compassion for the parents?
Why? Because it's the teacher's fault? What do you want them to do exactly, cure your child? Tell you everything will be alright? Exactly what? You are the one having problems with acceptance.
the reason the average career of a special ed teacher is three years is parents like you that have an entitlement complex.......
You stated as much yourself.
the special ed teachers are some of the few people that are willing to work with children. Sounds like you have taken your problems out on the teachers.
BTW, teachers have a life outside of the classroom too which includes children, elder parents etc.
Where is YOUR compassion?
PS any time you think you can do a better job of teaching and think it's so easy then you should be doing it.
Sounds like you are a really, really bad parent and object to being shot.
I've seen the best and the worst of teachers. I've seen one teacher who said my son didn't belong in Kindergarten, while he was in class and in front of him. He came home crying. I've seen a teacher drag a student out of the classroom bodily, lock the door then look at me and tell me that the student got her behavior from my son. I am happy to say that teacher is no longer teaching.
I've also seen a teacher go out of her way to help me with my youngest son. Giving me her home phone number and telling me to give the number to my parents who were going to take care of my kids for 4 days while my husband and I were leaving town. She said we needed a break and if my parents had a problem, SHE would handle it.
My niece is a special needs teacher, I like to think I encouraged her to become one. Today, she and her husband have helped to start an organization to help black men ages 15-18 over the summer in Oakland, it's called "The Genius Program". I have a cousin who teaches, I had a cousin much older than me that taught in a one room schoolhouse. Two of her students grew up to be US Congressmen.
And as for me objecting to being shot, with two special needs kids, trust me, there have been times when I wish I was. Thank you for your compassion. (or obvious lack thereof) You were wrong when you spoke to that mother and you're wrong about me. If you want more time for you own life, quit teaching there are other jobs that pay more.
While my kids were in school, the good teachers got gifts every year. Yeah, I know they have a life outside of school so my gifts were always homemade lasagna and french bread and salad. All they had to do was heat up the lasagna for a delicious meal they didn't have to cook.
And I know so well that they have a life outside of the class that I would often call one of my son's teachers at 5pm at night, still in the classroom and tell her to "go home".
She was the complete opposite of the teachers who when the bell rang, were in their cars and on their way home before the buses were even loaded. I'm thinking you fall into the second category.