Straight Men & Women: What would you do....?

[ChrisL]

I have a story about this kind of situation. My cousin was a member of a Pearl Jam tribute band, so my ex and I went to a local bar/club to watch him and his band play. They were pretty popular at the time locally, so the place was packed and it was loud. We started talking to this lady who was sitting next to us and had some drinks. Then, she said something, and I couldn't hear her, so I moved in close to hear her, and she stuck her tongue in my ear!!! I just pulled away from her and was surprised and kind of grossed out. I don't really enjoy wet willies. Later on, when I told me ex about that, he said that she did it to him too! Lol. She was then trying to talk us into coming over to her house afterwards, but we declined. She was kind of strange, her name was "Breeze" and she was from Tennessee. Probably a conservative Christian republican.

Wow...from hello to wet willy. Bold move Breeze. Bold move. I wonder how often that has worked for her in the past, if any?

I don't know, mdk! I guess it would depend on if you like wet willies!

 

[ChrisL]

Nothing like a mouthful of ear wax to awaken the senses, amirite?

 

[mdk]

I have a story about this kind of situation. My cousin was a member of a Pearl Jam tribute band, so my ex and I went to a local bar/club to watch him and his band play. They were pretty popular at the time locally, so the place was packed and it was loud. We started talking to this lady who was sitting next to us and had some drinks. Then, she said something, and I couldn't hear her, so I moved in close to hear her, and she stuck her tongue in my ear!!! I just pulled away from her and was surprised and kind of grossed out. I don't really enjoy wet willies. Later on, when I told me ex about that, he said that she did it to him too! Lol. She was then trying to talk us into coming over to her house afterwards, but we declined. She was kind of strange, her name was "Breeze" and she was from Tennessee. Probably a conservative Christian republican.

Wow...from hello to wet willy. Bold move Breeze. Bold move. I wonder how often that has worked for her in the past, if any?

I don't know, mdk! I guess it would depend on if you like wet willies!

I do not. lol. I had a very large black women grab my junk once on a Greyhound when I was returning home from university for Thanksgiving. I was pretty shocked but I didn't make a big deal about it b/c it was pretty clear life had punished her enough already.

 

[bodecea]

Straight women everywhere are laughing.

I'm slow bode.. why?

That men would even have to puzzle over something straight women are always dealing with.

Queers should only go after other queers. They have the scarlet letter of and a strange dialect

-Geaux

My, my. You should tell us all about it.

 

[Correll]

......if a homosexual made a pass at you? asked you out, flirted with you etc.?

How do you think you would handle it? or
If it HAS happened to you, how did you handle it?

It has happened twice that I know of.

In both cases I firmly ignored the pass until it went away.

 

[Bonzi]

I have a story about this kind of situation. My cousin was a member of a Pearl Jam tribute band, so my ex and I went to a local bar/club to watch him and his band play. They were pretty popular at the time locally, so the place was packed and it was loud. We started talking to this lady who was sitting next to us and had some drinks. Then, she said something, and I couldn't hear her, so I moved in close to hear her, and she stuck her tongue in my ear!!! I just pulled away from her and was surprised and kind of grossed out. I don't really enjoy wet willies. Later on, when I told me ex about that, he said that she did it to him too! Lol. She was then trying to talk us into coming over to her house afterwards, but we declined. She was kind of strange, her name was "Breeze" and she was from Tennessee. Probably a conservative Christian republican.

Yeah, we're all closet bisexuals! Busted!!!

 

[ChrisL]

I have a story about this kind of situation. My cousin was a member of a Pearl Jam tribute band, so my ex and I went to a local bar/club to watch him and his band play. They were pretty popular at the time locally, so the place was packed and it was loud. We started talking to this lady who was sitting next to us and had some drinks. Then, she said something, and I couldn't hear her, so I moved in close to hear her, and she stuck her tongue in my ear!!! I just pulled away from her and was surprised and kind of grossed out. I don't really enjoy wet willies. Later on, when I told me ex about that, he said that she did it to him too! Lol. She was then trying to talk us into coming over to her house afterwards, but we declined. She was kind of strange, her name was "Breeze" and she was from Tennessee. Probably a conservative Christian republican.

Yeah, we're all closet bisexuals! Busted!!!

I knew that, given how much attention you guys give to gay sex.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

 

[Bonzi]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

 

[ChrisL]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

 

[ChrisL]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

Well, I disagree. I think a lot of people just aren't very particular and horny. Look at you and your love affair with your own hand!

 

[Bonzi]

I've heard men talk saying if a homosexual tried to hit on them they would punch them.
To me, that is homophobic behavior. Why would you want to hit them?

What is someone was more aggressive and kiss you or grabbed your butt?
Is hitting someone even in that circumstance warranted? If not, what would be an appropriate reaction?

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

But white trash sure is popular on TV.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

Well, I disagree. I think a lot of people just aren't very particular and horny. Look at you and your love affair with your own hand!

Better to take advantage of ourselves than involve another person's feelings, hopes, and emotions. If I"m just horny, better me than someone who perhaps thinks of it as being more emtoinally-involved. I regard recreational sex as others regard social hugging. It's fun and beneficial but doesn't mean I wanna live together or get married.

 

[ChrisL]

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

But white trash sure is popular on TV.

Hey, Jessica Simpson is like white trash, and plenty of people find her sexy!

 

[Delta4Embassy]

The violent reaction types are usually the closet cases. Reason being it isn't unknown to them but for whatever reason they don't give themselves permission to explore and act on it. So it festers inside their mind going unaddressed and any reminder of it sets them off.

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

But white trash sure is popular on TV.

Alas.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

But white trash sure is popular on TV.

Hey, Jessica Simpson is like white trash, and plenty of people find her sexy!

The entire cast of "Gypsy Sisters" are white trash. Foul mouthed, drunks who I swear look like meth addicts.

 

[ChrisL]

I think too, they are afraid if someone sees a gay person hitting on them, the person seeing it will think he is gay - which goes to the homophobic thing.

I'm not even a gay marriage proponent, but I'm not homophobic.

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

Well, I disagree. I think a lot of people just aren't very particular and horny. Look at you and your love affair with your own hand!

Better to take advantage of ourselves than involve another person's feelings, hopes, and emotions. If I"m just horny, better me than someone who perhaps thinks of it as being more emtoinally-involved. I regard recreational sex as others regard social hugging. It's fun and beneficial but doesn't mean I wanna live together or get married.

Well, the point I am trying to make here is that some people (especially men) are not very particular when it comes to a sexual partner. True or false?

 

[ChrisL]

If someone's that concerned with what others think about something so easily disproven they have problems above and beyond having gays hitting on them.

Should be flattered if a gay/lesbian hits on you. As the line from "Red Dwarf" goes from "Cat," "Buddy, I have a body that makes men wet."

Why should you be flattered? Some people will hit on just about anything and everything, that is especially true for men.

Majority of gay men and lesbians want very masculine or feminine lovers. If one hits on you you must have the kind of beauty or appeal idealized by gays and lesbians.

No one ever wrote about idealizing the beauty of trailer park people. Greeks did write about the beauty of gay men and women though. And they musta been right because we now study those writings in college. No one studies white trash.

But white trash sure is popular on TV.

Hey, Jessica Simpson is like white trash, and plenty of people find her sexy!

The entire cast of "Gypsy Sisters" are white trash. Foul mouthed, drunks who I swear look like meth addicts.

Never seen it. I usually avoid most reality shows. I don't care about any of these people who I don't even know, TBH.