Goldcatt, I don't think the fact this family sought out the speech should have any bearing on the case. If you think some has spoken falsely or in a derogatory fashion about you or your family, seeking out what they said, so you can defend or prosecute them is a comletely understandable action. The speaker is responsible for the content of their speech. As I mentioned in another post here, certain private events have an element of being public. Wedding, funeral and birth announcements to mention a few. There is a basic understanding that those who do not know the parties will not be showing up.
I also think this suit is a freedom of religion case. WBC has imposed their religious beliefs onto the family. This crosses a Constitutional border as well. The funeral attendees all had feelings for the family's loss. They were used too by WBC, without consent. That makes them captives in my opinion. At first, I thought you were just interested in the particulars of the case, but now I find myself wondering why you are defending the church. I assume it is because you don't want our political process to play out. That is not how our country works.
Think about what you're saying here. I mean really think about it. Let's say somebody writes a letter to the editor giving a negative opinion about you or a member of your family, you're told about it and you read it, under your analysis you can sue them for intentional infliction of emotional distress for expressing an opinion. Or if Fred Phelps googled and found many of the posts on here slamming him by name and his organization in general (some of them mine), he could sue this site's owners and the individuals making those posts. Look at all the anti-Muslim posts on here, some of them naming individual imams and others and making clearly hyperbolic and derogatory remarks. If you have your way, those individuals could sue. Because of course First Amendment restrictions must be content neutral - meaning if we can sue them, they can also sue us.
$2.9 million. That was the jury award here. How does that sound to you?
My position on WBC as a group has always been clear, perhaps you haven't been around long enough to have seen those discussions. I'm not rolling in the dirt with you on your insinuations now, frankly it's beneath me. But what's at stake here is much, much bigger than the assholes at WBC, and the decision rendered will affect all of us, not just Phelps and Co. If you can't see that I'm afraid your emotions are getting the better of you.