Signs of Infidelity

[Bonzi]

1. Emotionally Distance
2. Angry / Critical
3. Increased Working Hours / Travel
4. Increased need for Privacy / Time Alone
5. Sudden change in appearance (for the better e.g. weight loss)
6. More energy / zeal for life
7. Sudden change in interests
8. Overly Defensive

Any others to add?
Have you experience any of this (past, present?)

 

[Iceweasel]

Another infidelity thread? If your spouse mumbles your sister's name in his sleep, you might have a problem.

 

[rightwinger]

Lipstick on your collar?

 

[Bonzi]

Another infidelity thread? If your spouse mumbles your sister's name in his sleep, you might have a problem.

I think it's interesting......

There was a woman in church a few years back that suddenly began losing weight and making herself up and I told hubby - something is going on there... he thought I was nuts..... well - long story short, her marriage split about 6 months later....

 

[Bonzi]

My mother also had a "crush" on one of the teachers she worked with at school ... she started working out losing weight etc. Nothing every came of it (no pun intended) - but.... was definitely an "affair of the heart"....

 

[Iceweasel]

Another infidelity thread? If your spouse mumbles your sister's name in his sleep, you might have a problem.

I think it's interesting......

There was a woman in church a few years back that suddenly began losing weight and making herself up and I told hubby - something is going on there... he thought I was nuts..... well - long story short, her marriage split about 6 months later....

I hate people that do that. If someone is unhappy they should leave, not stay attached for security/company while pursuing alternatives.

 

[Bonzi]

Another infidelity thread? If your spouse mumbles your sister's name in his sleep, you might have a problem.

I think it's interesting......

There was a woman in church a few years back that suddenly began losing weight and making herself up and I told hubby - something is going on there... he thought I was nuts..... well - long story short, her marriage split about 6 months later....

I hate people that do that. If someone is unhappy they should leave, not stay attached for security/company while pursuing alternatives.

No one likes to see people have their cake and eat it too......
Mess around until they have the commitment then just switch teams so to speak....
Life is unfair in so many ways - but, just shows total lack of character - so just avoid those peeps

 

[Muhammed]

The absolute #1 indication that , when you are not cheating on her and your spouse is cheating on you, is that she will accuse you of cheating on her.

It's a dead giveaway. Psychological projection at work...

 

[shadow355]

1. Emotionally Distance
2. Angry / Critical
3. Increased Working Hours / Travel
4. Increased need for Privacy / Time Alone
5. Sudden change in appearance (for the better e.g. weight loss)
6. More energy / zeal for life
7. Sudden change in interests
8. Overly Defensive

Any others to add?
Have you experience any of this (past, present?)

When I was married, I was at my in- laws house, in the kitchen. I was leaning back on the counter,,,,, or something. One of my sister in laws; the blonde one walked by me from right to left. She was in tight pants / yoga pants .... And she walked by me, then turned her left head over her shoulder , looked at me and smiled. I was being watched / observed / covertly video taped ..... I believe.

Both her and my other sister in law flirted with me irregularity.

I believe it was a set up.

-------

Me and a LPN was taking a patient to the hospital in a Metropolis north of where I live - about the summer of the year 1996. I volunteered at the County EMS agency where my ex - wife grew up; the county east of where I currently live. I was driving the ambulance on a routine transport. As I got out of the town , past where a State Trooper lived - he was driving a jeep as a cruiser at the time; as I got out of town a Chevy S10 blazer or GMC " jimmy " got behind me, from a parking area on the left and It followed me north on the secondary highway. I watched it in the mirrors as it got behind me .

On my way back, at an intersection just off the interstate - a " boat of a car " - something along the lines of a Chrysler Fury, got behind me and followed me south. The Chevy or GMC following me, and the " boat of a car" following me. I was under surveillance.

A meeting at the community center in the town my exwife grew up. Sitting st a table , a blonde was setting behind me about three tables back. She was watching me - had me under surveillance.

One evening I was returning home after volunteering at the EMS station in the county east of where I live. I detoured off of the main road- east of the county seat of the county I now live in. The volunteer fire department I was in responded to a structure fire. I responded also. The fire I believe was staged- I was being watched " on scene " - me standing in my EMS uniform and shined boots - while enjoying tobacco. I talk to the Deputy Chief; whom is a retired postal delivery guy at the post office where I currently get my mail. As we talk, near the fire engine as I recall - he has wondering eyes. Is he looking at: or for the surveillance guys, equipment ?

A female flirts with me ; whom works for the EMS agency I volunteered at. Penny was her name. I tell the exploits at the next fire meeting . I believe it was before I actually started my volunteer time : a fire school, town civic event..... Or something if that nature.

I seen , as I call it - " the lowest common denominator". Repetitive events that are are associated with each other.

Repetitive " M.O.s "

Flirty women, and staged fires in the county and at work.

A fire at work - within a few months of me starting. Bay 5 area , northwest corner of a furnace . As I believe a hydraulic line had been cut and set on fire.

Dumpster fires at work intentionally set.

A fire in the south - southeast corner of bay 1. A filter room . A fire with no known or possible ignition source. It was intentionally set.

Bay 4 - an aluminum fire within a month or so if me starting my new job. No ignition source and a fuel that takes heat to ignite. It was intentionally set I believe.

About the fall of the year 2010. A fire in the hot metal department - section 9 area. A fire beside a large pot of aluminum - below the floor. Little oxygen to keep combustion, and it was hydraulic fluid. Intentionally set as I believe . I ended up getting the second fire engine with the foam pack and putting foam in it. The incident commander - " grandpa" - had me park the fire engine near the pot of aluminum, which I disagreed with . Had the pot " burped" the fire engine and supply hose on top would have been destroyed .

Me - being played mind games with .

Me being " under surveillance " since about the year 1995, as I recall noticing.

Shadow 355

 

[norwegen]

When he walks in the house with his new girlfriend and introduces her.

 

[ogibillm]

1. Emotionally Distance
2. Angry / Critical
3. Increased Working Hours / Travel
4. Increased need for Privacy / Time Alone
5. Sudden change in appearance (for the better e.g. weight loss)
6. More energy / zeal for life
7. Sudden change in interests
8. Overly Defensive

Any others to add?
Have you experience any of this (past, present?)

When I was married, I was at my in- laws house, in the kitchen. I was leaning back on the counter,,,,, or something. One of my sister in laws; the blonde one walked by me from right to left. She was in tight pants / yoga pants .... And she walked by me, then turned her left head over her shoulder , looked at me and smiled. I was being watched / observed / covertly video taped ..... I believe.

Both her and my other sister in law flirted with me irregularity.

I believe it was a set up.

-------

Me and a LPN was taking a patient to the hospital in a Metropolis north of where I live - about the summer of the year 1996. I volunteered at the County EMS agency where my ex - wife grew up; the county east of where I currently live. I was driving the ambulance on a routine transport. As I got out of the town , past where a State Trooper lived - he was driving a jeep as a cruiser at the time; as I got out of town a Chevy S10 blazer or GMC " jimmy " got behind me, from a parking area on the left and It followed me north on the secondary highway. I watched it in the mirrors as it got behind me .

On my way back, at an intersection just off the interstate - a " boat of a car " - something along the lines of a Chrysler Fury, got behind me and followed me south. The Chevy or GMC following me, and the " boat of a car" following me. I was under surveillance.

A meeting at the community center in the town my exwife grew up. Sitting st a table , a blonde was setting behind me about three tables back. She was watching me - had me under surveillance.

One evening I was returning home after volunteering at the EMS station in the county east of where I live. I detoured off of the main road- east of the county seat of the county I now live in. The volunteer fire department I was in responded to a structure fire. I responded also. The fire I believe was staged- I was being watched " on scene " - me standing in my EMS uniform and shined boots - while enjoying tobacco. I talk to the Deputy Chief; whom is a retired postal delivery guy at the post office where I currently get my mail. As we talk, near the fire engine as I recall - he has wondering eyes. Is he looking at: or for the surveillance guys, equipment ?

A female flirts with me ; whom works for the EMS agency I volunteered at. Penny was her name. I tell the exploits at the next fire meeting . I believe it was before I actually started my volunteer time : a fire school, town civic event..... Or something if that nature.

I seen , as I call it - " the lowest common denominator". Repetitive events that are are associated with each other.

Repetitive " M.O.s "

Flirty women, and staged fires in the county and at work.

A fire at work - within a few months of me starting. Bay 5 area , northwest corner of a furnace . As I believe a hydraulic line had been cut and set on fire.

Dumpster fires at work intentionally set.

A fire in the south - southeast corner of bay 1. A filter room . A fire with no known or possible ignition source. It was intentionally set.

Bay 4 - an aluminum fire within a month or so if me starting my new job. No ignition source and a fuel that takes heat to ignite. It was intentionally set I believe.

About the fall of the year 2010. A fire in the hot metal department - section 9 area. A fire beside a large pot of aluminum - below the floor. Little oxygen to keep combustion, and it was hydraulic fluid. Intentionally set as I believe . I ended up getting the second fire engine with the foam pack and putting foam in it. The incident commander - " grandpa" - had me park the fire engine near the pot of aluminum, which I disagreed with . Had the pot " burped" the fire engine and supply hose on top would have been destroyed .

Me - being played mind games with .

Me being " under surveillance " since about the year 1995, as I recall noticing.

Shadow 355

can anyone else smell the crazy coming off of this one?

 

[Bonzi]

1. Emotionally Distance
2. Angry / Critical
3. Increased Working Hours / Travel
4. Increased need for Privacy / Time Alone
5. Sudden change in appearance (for the better e.g. weight loss)
6. More energy / zeal for life
7. Sudden change in interests
8. Overly Defensive

Any others to add?
Have you experience any of this (past, present?)

When I was married, I was at my in- laws house, in the kitchen. I was leaning back on the counter,,,,, or something. One of my sister in laws; the blonde one walked by me from right to left. She was in tight pants / yoga pants .... And she walked by me, then turned her left head over her shoulder , looked at me and smiled. I was being watched / observed / covertly video taped ..... I believe.

Both her and my other sister in law flirted with me irregularity.

I believe it was a set up.

-------

Me and a LPN was taking a patient to the hospital in a Metropolis north of where I live - about the summer of the year 1996. I volunteered at the County EMS agency where my ex - wife grew up; the county east of where I currently live. I was driving the ambulance on a routine transport. As I got out of the town , past where a State Trooper lived - he was driving a jeep as a cruiser at the time; as I got out of town a Chevy S10 blazer or GMC " jimmy " got behind me, from a parking area on the left and It followed me north on the secondary highway. I watched it in the mirrors as it got behind me .

On my way back, at an intersection just off the interstate - a " boat of a car " - something along the lines of a Chrysler Fury, got behind me and followed me south. The Chevy or GMC following me, and the " boat of a car" following me. I was under surveillance.

A meeting at the community center in the town my exwife grew up. Sitting st a table , a blonde was setting behind me about three tables back. She was watching me - had me under surveillance.

One evening I was returning home after volunteering at the EMS station in the county east of where I live. I detoured off of the main road- east of the county seat of the county I now live in. The volunteer fire department I was in responded to a structure fire. I responded also. The fire I believe was staged- I was being watched " on scene " - me standing in my EMS uniform and shined boots - while enjoying tobacco. I talk to the Deputy Chief; whom is a retired postal delivery guy at the post office where I currently get my mail. As we talk, near the fire engine as I recall - he has wondering eyes. Is he looking at: or for the surveillance guys, equipment ?

A female flirts with me ; whom works for the EMS agency I volunteered at. Penny was her name. I tell the exploits at the next fire meeting . I believe it was before I actually started my volunteer time : a fire school, town civic event..... Or something if that nature.

I seen , as I call it - " the lowest common denominator". Repetitive events that are are associated with each other.

Repetitive " M.O.s "

Flirty women, and staged fires in the county and at work.

A fire at work - within a few months of me starting. Bay 5 area , northwest corner of a furnace . As I believe a hydraulic line had been cut and set on fire.

Dumpster fires at work intentionally set.

A fire in the south - southeast corner of bay 1. A filter room . A fire with no known or possible ignition source. It was intentionally set.

Bay 4 - an aluminum fire within a month or so if me starting my new job. No ignition source and a fuel that takes heat to ignite. It was intentionally set I believe.

About the fall of the year 2010. A fire in the hot metal department - section 9 area. A fire beside a large pot of aluminum - below the floor. Little oxygen to keep combustion, and it was hydraulic fluid. Intentionally set as I believe . I ended up getting the second fire engine with the foam pack and putting foam in it. The incident commander - " grandpa" - had me park the fire engine near the pot of aluminum, which I disagreed with . Had the pot " burped" the fire engine and supply hose on top would have been destroyed .

Me - being played mind games with .

Me being " under surveillance " since about the year 1995, as I recall noticing.

Shadow 355

How then could you tell the difference between someone flirting with you genuinely vs. a "set up"?

 

[shadow355]

1. Emotionally Distance
2. Angry / Critical
3. Increased Working Hours / Travel
4. Increased need for Privacy / Time Alone
5. Sudden change in appearance (for the better e.g. weight loss)
6. More energy / zeal for life
7. Sudden change in interests
8. Overly Defensive

Any others to add?
Have you experience any of this (past, present?)

When I was married, I was at my in- laws house, in the kitchen. I was leaning back on the counter,,,,, or something. One of my sister in laws; the blonde one walked by me from right to left. She was in tight pants / yoga pants .... And she walked by me, then turned her left head over her shoulder , looked at me and smiled. I was being watched / observed / covertly video taped ..... I believe.

Both her and my other sister in law flirted with me irregularity.

I believe it was a set up.

-------

Me and a LPN was taking a patient to the hospital in a Metropolis north of where I live - about the summer of the year 1996. I volunteered at the County EMS agency where my ex - wife grew up; the county east of where I currently live. I was driving the ambulance on a routine transport. As I got out of the town , past where a State Trooper lived - he was driving a jeep as a cruiser at the time; as I got out of town a Chevy S10 blazer or GMC " jimmy " got behind me, from a parking area on the left and It followed me north on the secondary highway. I watched it in the mirrors as it got behind me .

On my way back, at an intersection just off the interstate - a " boat of a car " - something along the lines of a Chrysler Fury, got behind me and followed me south. The Chevy or GMC following me, and the " boat of a car" following me. I was under surveillance.

A meeting at the community center in the town my exwife grew up. Sitting st a table , a blonde was setting behind me about three tables back. She was watching me - had me under surveillance.

One evening I was returning home after volunteering at the EMS station in the county east of where I live. I detoured off of the main road- east of the county seat of the county I now live in. The volunteer fire department I was in responded to a structure fire. I responded also. The fire I believe was staged- I was being watched " on scene " - me standing in my EMS uniform and shined boots - while enjoying tobacco. I talk to the Deputy Chief; whom is a retired postal delivery guy at the post office where I currently get my mail. As we talk, near the fire engine as I recall - he has wondering eyes. Is he looking at: or for the surveillance guys, equipment ?

A female flirts with me ; whom works for the EMS agency I volunteered at. Penny was her name. I tell the exploits at the next fire meeting . I believe it was before I actually started my volunteer time : a fire school, town civic event..... Or something if that nature.

I seen , as I call it - " the lowest common denominator". Repetitive events that are are associated with each other.

Repetitive " M.O.s "

Flirty women, and staged fires in the county and at work.

A fire at work - within a few months of me starting. Bay 5 area , northwest corner of a furnace . As I believe a hydraulic line had been cut and set on fire.

Dumpster fires at work intentionally set.

A fire in the south - southeast corner of bay 1. A filter room . A fire with no known or possible ignition source. It was intentionally set.

Bay 4 - an aluminum fire within a month or so if me starting my new job. No ignition source and a fuel that takes heat to ignite. It was intentionally set I believe.

About the fall of the year 2010. A fire in the hot metal department - section 9 area. A fire beside a large pot of aluminum - below the floor. Little oxygen to keep combustion, and it was hydraulic fluid. Intentionally set as I believe . I ended up getting the second fire engine with the foam pack and putting foam in it. The incident commander - " grandpa" - had me park the fire engine near the pot of aluminum, which I disagreed with . Had the pot " burped" the fire engine and supply hose on top would have been destroyed .

Me - being played mind games with .

Me being " under surveillance " since about the year 1995, as I recall noticing.

Shadow 355

How then could you tell the difference between someone flirting with you genuinely vs. a "set up"?

I will keep that to myself.

Driving home - on the two lane highway east of the county seat of my county. I just finished volunteering at the EMS station east if where I now live. I have to go through the back country to get to a structure fire that gets dispatched as I am driving west. The call is ahead / In front of me.

Working at the Metropolitan EMS i used to work at - I leave Central Headquarters and drive south on the interstate. I get dispatched to either the 1st or 9 th street exit of the interstate; for a medical call. The exit is ahead of me. I respond , an elderly female in the living room and sitting on the couch if I remember correctly. It was a " set up call ". Drive down the interstate and get off the exit ahead .

The fire I responded to as I was driving home from the EMS station east of where I live - as described above----- > is the lowest common denominator.

An individual....... Or group of individuals........is lying to me , and manipulating me - in the greatest of extremes. I have my theory.

Intel - Detail !

Shadow 355