Arbitrary: based on random choice or personal whim, rather than any reason or system.
Objective: not influenced by personal feelings or opinions in considering and representing facts.
The design of the human species is that common to the natural order, wherein such is not influenced by either ANY individual present in this discussion, or the subjective need common to such. The design presents specific UNDENIABLE traits and attributes... not the least of which is the distinctions common to gender.
Marriage sets those distinct, but complimenting genders into ONE BEING; with their complimenting attributes being THE INCONTESTABLE PROOF, in terms of the design requiring them to be joined... from which is born a distinct being, which is then nurtured and trained within and through the traits common to the traits of the respective genders.
Such could NOT BE > LESS < arbitrary, nor MORE > OBJECTIVE < ... .
Your misuse and consistent abuse of the language is FTR: Yet another indication of the intrinsic evil, inherent in your cause. It serves as further proof that such rests in nothing less or more beyond the attempt to DECEIVE, through among others, that specific fraudulence, as a means to influence the ignorant.
Now the coolest part is that evil NEEDS to influence the ignorant, so as to establish a popular position in the culture... and wherein that culture is governed through democratic principles, such provides for the axiomatic path of least resistance toward accomplishing the destruction of same.
And we can rest assured that THIS is why Socialism NEEDS Democracy and why Democracies always die a fiery death... and generally in two centuries or less, as that provides for the 10 generations required to rinse from the people, the means to recognize, respect, defend and adhere to the principles in nature that provide for the viability that sustains their freedom.
Now HOW COOL IS THAT?