if he did not turn you on,why would you have sex with him?....
Because I sometimes like to be abusive.
if you just layed there and let the guy **** you,he still got off....so how is that being abusive?....to many men a "**** even a bad one,is still a ****"....
Men like to think they are good lovers. It's part of their self esteem and don't count on a guy getting off. Sometimes they lose it with a bout of ed.
There is something comical about a guy struggling, getting all red in the face, huffing and puffing. Then the calm cool voice "did you think you were exciting me?"
It's funny in a macabre way. The one certain thing, win lose or draw, the guy is gone. He will not be back. No muss, no fuss, no explanations, no excuses.