Originally posted by Hobbit
First off, Christ himself said, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (John 14:6, NIV). The Bible clearly states the Christainity IS the only way, and that's why we believe it. As a person who tries to emulate Jesus rather than just interperet his words, I refuse to attempt to force Christianity on anybody, but don't call me arrogant for thinking it's the only way, because Jesus, the center of my entire religious belief system, said it is the only way.
Second, once again, those who truly follow Jesus will not try to forcefully convert someone. Such a conversion a) goes against Jesus' teachings of pacifism b) cause opposition to your cause and c) are almost never genuine and are merely faked to prevent torture/death.
The problem with Christianity now is that we oppose many ideals that the elite media holds as sacred, such as homosexuality and abortion. Even for these things, words are twisted and facts spun to make Christians look worse. The media depicts clinic bombers and homocidal homophobes. However, the teachings of Christ require that we submit to the government. "Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist are established by God." Romans 13:1, which means no clinic bombings or murders of homosexuals. Even if murder was somehow allowable, the belief is that homosexuality actions are sin, much like lieing, stealing, coveting, and many other actions that we have all committed. Romans 3:23 reads "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God," meaning that they are in no way "less than human" and should be treated like everyone else whose actions we disagree with. Much in the same way you can't call Islam as a whole violent because many Muslims believe God wants them to blow themselves up to kill innocents, you cannot call Christianity as a whole oppressive because a few Christians believe God wants them to blow up abortion clinics or treat homosexuals as less than human. Well, technically, you can call Christianity a war-like religion that believes aliens from Mars will come down and blast all pro-choicers and homosexuals with their ray guns, but that doesn't make it true.