A suppose where the problem enters is in what a mod interprets as constituting an accusal. I was accused of it once for simply warning the OP of a thread to watch himself with the topic after he called everyone on this board a pedo who supports Trump! In that case, my "accusal" was nothing more than a friendly jopke with good intentions where the words groomer or pedo never appeared yet became an inference by the mod based on an implied insinuation, which seems a bit too vague and gray an area for so severe a rule, meantime, the OP actually called everyone here a Pedo and another member later called me a Pedo in no uncertain terms directly twice to my face!
Best I know, there was no discipline in any of those cases, so, seems to me you folks needs to go back and rethink and better define your rule.