Honest question. How do you think we feel as Christians trying to grasp "love the sinner and not the sin"?
It's not easy BD. I come from major rock and roll out of Toronto and I can do leather and dance at David's in my past. Wild and crazy lifetime. AND I love and adore my gay friends.
And I admire them. Hey, used to live on Isabella and frankly if it wasn't for them I don't think I could have survived my first divorce.
But what do we do? I know I'm conflicted. I'd rather know one great gay person than 10 **** head wife beating heteros. But .......
It pains me. I can't speak for anyone else, but I just wish everyone would stop broad brushing from both sides of the aisle.
I think in the end it's going to be a pearly gate moment asking "can we get Stephen and Chris up here?".
I am not conflicted at all.
It is consistent with our other doctrines and I have no issues with it.
There has never been a call to look down on people who are gay and the chuch is filled with men and women who struggle with their sexual orientation.
The church also claims to be led by prophets. And if you really believe that is true, then the matter (of being gay in the eternities) is out of your hands and nothing you need worry about.
What I find somewhat appalling about the whole gay argument (in general) is the claim that marriage is sacred....and yet the hetero world seems to want to bust them up at a rate of 50%. Now, that I find hypocritical (and yes, I saw you got divorced and each situation is unique....still, you'd think that we could better than that).
My guess is that if we fixed that part of the equation, the gay marriage question would very much resolve itself for the most part.