There were atrocities on both sides. Southerners murdered civilians that were suspected of aiding and abetting Northern soldiers. There were more than 13,000 complaints of inhumane treatment from Union soldiers held captive in southern prisons. The very design of Southern prisons or to destroy the lives of the soldiers have captive and murder many of them ( much higher mortality rates than their Northern counterparts ) despite the laws and customs of warfare. They also practice scorched Earth policies to deprive Northern soldiers of any food or shelter as a progressed further south. Southerners robbed and burned small towns in an effort to terrorize civilians. People are people, it's easy to be good to one another and be at our best at times of peace, not so easy at times of war and stress. There's nothing romantic about war on either side. It is barbaric and it shows how uncivilized we still are.THESE men did not treat them as less than human beings. Each one, thrust into this position of 'master' treated those that they owned kindly. I challenge you to show different.
and while we're at it. Let us hear you justify the cruelty and barbarism shown to Southern noncombatant women, children, elderly, and animals at the orders of Sherman and his march to the sea. NO southern general ever did that to northern noncombatants.