I'm just going to add this additional thought before it slips my mind, it's semi-related.
So back in the 70s, 80s, and especially going into the 90s there was this prevailing thought that women were strong, confident, and able to take care of themselves - essentially that they didn't need protection (ie that they could handle being exposed to all the realities of the "male dominated world")
Now we see that is /not/ the case; tons of women coming out saying they couldn't stand up for their convictions and wishes, saying they felt "abused" and that they "didn't have a choice" despite the arguments of feminism.
Pathological altruism...
Fair disclosure, I'm a bit anti-feminist; the idea that women can work and vote is acceptable to me in the scheme of "human equality," even if I disagree with what its done to this nation and our society (kids not being raised and shit) - but I have to disagree that women are as... uhm... "emotionally capable" as men and I think this wellspring incident proves my point.