Haven't read your Bible in life yet have you ?? You are absolutely correct though, otherwise when you say that God is not hate. This is true.
He is the creator of life where as he giveth life, and he taketh life away, but not in the sense that a human who doesn't believe or rebukes him might think.
These things are never done out of Hate, but only out of celebration that a life has been born or reborn and freed from the clutches of sin (ohh happy day)
However, those who rebuke him, and instead chaseth after the dark side, well that is somewhat of a different type of handling of such a thing, because sin and hate will not enter into the Kingdom of Heaven period. So either this is realized or not, but it will be the man or woman's choice. Make the choice, but make it wisely. It's up to you.