Question for Men: Feminine Women

[ChrisL]

You can't be stuck on yourself in a relationship, although many do it can be toxic, plus, looks are fleeting, they disappear with age......

Well, you and I will never be in a relationship, so why do you care?

I just like to jerk your chain, your easy meat........

that is a defense mechanism Chris... and you know it too MG....

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

 

[Bonzi]

Well, you and I will never be in a relationship, so why do you care?

I just like to jerk your chain, your easy meat........

that is a defense mechanism Chris... and you know it too MG....

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

 

[ChrisL]

You can't be stuck on yourself in a relationship, although many do it can be toxic, plus, looks are fleeting, they disappear with age......

Well, you and I will never be in a relationship, so why do you care?

I just like to jerk your chain, your easy meat........

that is a defense mechanism Chris... and you know it too MG....

Really? I'd rather think it's impish, but I'm not the one with a halo...........

I have no halo. Maybe someone else does...

Not me. I do and have done plenty of things wrong.

 

[ChrisL]

I just like to jerk your chain, your easy meat........

that is a defense mechanism Chris... and you know it too MG....

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

Well then he needs to talk to his psychiatrist. I'm not going to tolerate being treated that way, and there is no reason why I should.

 

[Syriusly]

Is it important to you for your woman to be "feminine"?

Meaning, having polished nails, make up just right, grossed out by crude jokes, etc.
Is it a turn off for a girl to like sports, tell crude jokes, burp and fart? Is that a "deal breaker"?

None of those things. Then I don't consider those things to be particularly iconic of 'femininity'

what when "feminine" is mentioned, comes to mind for you?

A level of hygiene far higher than most men.
Smelling like a woman.
Curves that are different than a mans
Ability to carry on an interesting conversation on something other than sports.

What is a conversation other than sports that is interesting to you?
Politics?
Relationships?
Life?
Doesn't that vary from person to person?

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

 

[Moonglow]

I just like to jerk your chain, your easy meat........

that is a defense mechanism Chris... and you know it too MG....

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

You are barking up the wrong tree...............

 

[Bonzi]

Is it important to you for your woman to be "feminine"?

Meaning, having polished nails, make up just right, grossed out by crude jokes, etc.
Is it a turn off for a girl to like sports, tell crude jokes, burp and fart? Is that a "deal breaker"?

None of those things. Then I don't consider those things to be particularly iconic of 'femininity'

what when "feminine" is mentioned, comes to mind for you?

A level of hygiene far higher than most men.
Smelling like a woman.
Curves that are different than a mans
Ability to carry on an interesting conversation on something other than sports.

What is a conversation other than sports that is interesting to you?
Politics?
Relationships?
Life?
Doesn't that vary from person to person?

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

I think it would be impressive for a woman to carry on an intelligent conversation about sport. No?

 

[Bonzi]

that is a defense mechanism Chris... and you know it too MG....

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

You are barking up the wrong tree...............

I thought it was digging in the wrong place? Are you calling me a dog?
I don't think I am... (either case...)

 

[Syriusly]

None of those things. Then I don't consider those things to be particularly iconic of 'femininity'

what when "feminine" is mentioned, comes to mind for you?

A level of hygiene far higher than most men.
Smelling like a woman.
Curves that are different than a mans
Ability to carry on an interesting conversation on something other than sports.

What is a conversation other than sports that is interesting to you?
Politics?
Relationships?
Life?
Doesn't that vary from person to person?

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

I think it would be impressive for a woman to carry on an intelligent conversation about sport. No?

I wouldn't be impressed. Let me clarify- I have nothing against a woman who is into sports, who likes to talk about sports- but it is a subject that doesn't particularly interest me- and not what I look for in a woman- if I want someone to talk about sports to me- I could hang out with guys.

 

[Moonglow]

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

You are barking up the wrong tree...............

I thought it was digging in the wrong place? Are you calling me a dog?
I don't think I am... (either case...)

Oh I bet you sniff underwear.............

 

[Bonzi]

what when "feminine" is mentioned, comes to mind for you?

A level of hygiene far higher than most men.
Smelling like a woman.
Curves that are different than a mans
Ability to carry on an interesting conversation on something other than sports.

What is a conversation other than sports that is interesting to you?
Politics?
Relationships?
Life?
Doesn't that vary from person to person?

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

I think it would be impressive for a woman to carry on an intelligent conversation about sport. No?

I wouldn't be impressed. Let me clarify- I have nothing against a woman who is into sports, who likes to talk about sports- but it is a subject that doesn't particularly interest me- and not what I look for in a woman- if I want someone to talk about sports to me- I could hang out with guys.

do you like sports? men say it's not important, but, if you are are sitting around the house watching sports, most men want someone that will understand....

unless you have a lot of friends....

again, I ask what DO you want in a woman?

 

[Bonzi]

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

You are barking up the wrong tree...............

I thought it was digging in the wrong place? Are you calling me a dog?
I don't think I am... (either case...)

Oh I bet you sniff underwear.............

oh so you are the dog, I see

 

[ChrisL]

Who has a defense mechanism? Me?

Nope. MG - by saying he likes to jerk your chain... can calling you "easy meat"...

Yes, it's just another cop out for treating me badly.

He treats you (or others) badly because he's hurt.... nothing more, nothing less....

You are barking up the wrong tree...............

I thought it was digging in the wrong place? Are you calling me a dog?
I don't think I am... (either case...)

Let's get back on track here and ignore the little nuisances. Anyway, I don't think there is anything wrong with being just who you want to be. We are all just people. I don't have a "list" of things I expect from another person. If I meet a person and we hit it off, and there is sexual attraction there, then that is a good start.

 

[ChrisL]

A level of hygiene far higher than most men.
Smelling like a woman.
Curves that are different than a mans
Ability to carry on an interesting conversation on something other than sports.

What is a conversation other than sports that is interesting to you?
Politics?
Relationships?
Life?
Doesn't that vary from person to person?

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

I think it would be impressive for a woman to carry on an intelligent conversation about sport. No?

I wouldn't be impressed. Let me clarify- I have nothing against a woman who is into sports, who likes to talk about sports- but it is a subject that doesn't particularly interest me- and not what I look for in a woman- if I want someone to talk about sports to me- I could hang out with guys.

do you like sports? men say it's not important, but, if you are are sitting around the house watching sports, most men want someone that will understand....

unless you have a lot of friends....

again, I ask what DO you want in a woman?

I think he's married, so he's already found what he wanted. I don't know why so many married men respond to these types of threads. It gives one the impression that they are single and looking.

 

[ChrisL]

It's funny really. You start threads like this and most often all the married men are responding, but the single ones are all hiding somewhere.

 

[Bonzi]

What is a conversation other than sports that is interesting to you?
Politics?
Relationships?
Life?
Doesn't that vary from person to person?

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

I think it would be impressive for a woman to carry on an intelligent conversation about sport. No?

I wouldn't be impressed. Let me clarify- I have nothing against a woman who is into sports, who likes to talk about sports- but it is a subject that doesn't particularly interest me- and not what I look for in a woman- if I want someone to talk about sports to me- I could hang out with guys.

do you like sports? men say it's not important, but, if you are are sitting around the house watching sports, most men want someone that will understand....

unless you have a lot of friends....

again, I ask what DO you want in a woman?

I think he's married, so he's already found what he wanted. I don't know why so many married men respond to these types of threads. It gives one the impression that they are single and looking.

most people are not entirely satisfied with their "situation" - so, this is an outlet.
also, this is not really a "dating site" so, they can get their fill of political talk and also do a little flirting on the side... I totally understand what you are saying, though....

I have no intention of meeting up with people IRL, but, it's fun to come here and talk be both serious or silly, do whatever you feel like doing... everyone's "agenda" is different I guess.....

 

[Bonzi]

It's funny really. You start threads like this and most often all the married men are responding, but the single ones are all hiding somewhere.

probably out looking for "real" relationships!!!

 

[ChrisL]

It's funny really. You start threads like this and most often all the married men are responding, but the single ones are all hiding somewhere.

probably out looking for "real" relationships!!!

Perhaps, but you would think these kinds of threads would be more attractive to men who are not already with their life partners?

 

[Bonzi]

It's funny really. You start threads like this and most often all the married men are responding, but the single ones are all hiding somewhere.

probably out looking for "real" relationships!!!

Perhaps, but you would think these kinds of threads would be more attractive to men who are not already with their life partners?

yes. but nothing in life makes much sense.
I don't think "good men" are found on a message board....(sorry guys...)

 

[ChrisL]

Of course.....my opinion is very subjective and very personal.

I think it would be impressive for a woman to carry on an intelligent conversation about sport. No?

I wouldn't be impressed. Let me clarify- I have nothing against a woman who is into sports, who likes to talk about sports- but it is a subject that doesn't particularly interest me- and not what I look for in a woman- if I want someone to talk about sports to me- I could hang out with guys.

do you like sports? men say it's not important, but, if you are are sitting around the house watching sports, most men want someone that will understand....

unless you have a lot of friends....

again, I ask what DO you want in a woman?

I think he's married, so he's already found what he wanted. I don't know why so many married men respond to these types of threads. It gives one the impression that they are single and looking.

most people are not entirely satisfied with their "situation" - so, this is an outlet.
also, this is not really a "dating site" so, they can get their fill of political talk and also do a little flirting on the side... I totally understand what you are saying, though....

I have no intention of meeting up with people IRL, but, it's fun to come here and talk be both serious or silly, do whatever you feel like doing... everyone's "agenda" is different I guess.....

If I was married and I found out my husband was flirting with strange women on the internet, I might not be too pleased about that, to be completely up front and honest. Like, I would try to put myself in that situation and probably be more restrained with my flirting. My ex was quite "jealous" person, and I know he would not have appreciated if I was online flirting with strange men.