That seems to be what you are arguing.
There are numerous passages of private interactions.
I suggest you do an accounting of the verses about end times versus everything else. Jesus spoke about the "end of times" (eschatology) very little. They constitute a relatively small fraction of his overall recorded words compared to his teachings on the Kingdom of God, love, faith, and daily discipleship. You are trying to make it THE central theme when it's not and there is literally zero evidence to support your contention that Jesus told his disciples that he is the king of the Jews. Just as there is no evidence that Judas told the religious leaders that Jesus said he was the king of the Jews.
The most significant block of teaching on the end times is the Olivet Discourse, found in Matthew 24–25, Mark 13, and Luke 21. This discourse, given in response to questions about the destruction of the Temple and the end of the age, covers signs of the end, such as false messiahs, wars, persecution, and the Second Coming. These topics make up a small portion of the total record.
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vast majority of Jesus's recorded teachings and activities focus on the Kingdom of God, daily living and love, law and ethics and his healing and miracles. The primary theme of Jesus's ministry was the present and future reality of the Kingdom of God. Teachings on loving God and neighbors (Matthew 22:37-40), the Beatitudes (Matthew 5), forgiveness, and serving others. There were extensive teachings on the true meaning of the law, humility, and the hypocrisies of the religious leadership. Many of Jesus's recorded actions and sayings focus on healing the sick and performing miracles, such as those recorded in John's Gospel (e.g., healing a blind man, raising Lazarus).
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vast majority of the "red letter" words deal with instructions for life, faith, and the nature of God's Kingdom, rather than the chronological details of the end of the world.
This is yet another example of making stuff up because you can't bear to accept what the evidence shows.
It's you who is making stuff up. You made up that Jesus told his disciples that he is the king of the Jews. You made up Judas telling the religious leaders that Jesus told him that his is the king of the Jews. The gospels make a concerted effort to portray Jesus as divine. You are the one dismissing everything written in the gospels about Jesus.
I didn't make this up this is generally accepted by biblical scholars.
What exactly is generally accepted by biblical scholars? That Jesus told his disciples that he is the king of the Jews? That Judas told the religious leaders that Jesus is the king of the Jews?
Because scholarly consensus holds that religious leaders reframed a theological conflict into a political charge of sedition to ensure Roman execution. Because the Sanhedrin lacked authority for capital punishment, they presented Jesus to Pilate as a rival to Caesar, turning a domestic religious dispute into a capital offense against Rome.