1. You can always win an argument with superior facts and evidence.
There are no such things as "superior," facts and evidence. Either something is factual, or it is not. And no, you cannot win an argument by presenting selectively held facts and evidence, it all needs to be laid out, in its totality, and surmised, honestly.
2. Never tell someone they are wrong, prove they are wrong.
I think you missed the point of this one. If a position is held by someone, it is part of their world view, and their world view, may be part of their identy, you aren't going to change that, you can't make a "proof," against a firmly held belief that is part of someone's identity.
5. Can't get someone so firmly entrenched in a position to ever say 'yes.' It is a waste of effort to do so.
Go back to your Plato, look up the Socratic method. Get them to agree to things they already agree with.
6. That's something I do, by letting them talk. Why would I ever stop them from talking?
Some of these things, are mostly meant for personal interactions. He was a seminar and business consultant. I don't think this one can really be applied to written communicate, maybe instant messaging or phone conversations?
9. I easily sympathize with the victims in this massacre, as did I with the victims of Waukesha and Brooklyn. That is not an issue with me.
That isn't who you need to sympathize with. It is about those who fear gun violence and extremist politics that you need to sympathize with, & their politics. . . try to empathize with their values.
10. Such as? In the context of this discussion?
I haven't thought of one off-hand, and I rarely do. A lot of times? I am surprised, that folks will oblige, I learn, they learn, and a lot of times? It will end a thread.
A challenge, is a way to resolve the argument.
For instance, in the anchor baby argument, I challenged those who claimed that mothers who came here, just to give birth, to PROVE, that once they did, to find just ONE instance of one of these mothers being separated from their children and being deported.
My contention, of course, is because at least one in ten babies now being born in the US is to an illegal, and we are being overwhelmed with aliens to have babies here, THAT is were all this formula is going.
. . . and I was given a satisfactory answer, that yes, they do break up some families and send some back, though not very many. SO? A draw of sorts.
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How many babies are in our custody at the border? The problem we have here, is in the constitution. Women from south of the border, come here pregnant, in order to purposely give birth. The women are pregnant when they arrive, so technically? I suspect, most of these babies? Are...
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