I think I understand your frustration with forum communication. OTOH I don't think Anguille is necessarily dodging. You seem to have a particular implication in mind, and I wasn't sure what it was either.
But I will answer your question the best I can. I think the nurse was trying to do what she thought was the best
first course of action. Anyone in that situation has to prioritize and we really don't know everything that was said on either side. Clearly the people making the video had an agenda so I think that needs to be kept in mind. We don't know if the nurse also talked to her more about the relationship she was in. We don't know if they talked for an hour and this was the only 2 minutes they could use to make the case that PP is evil incarnate. Ad I know the video is like 4 minutes long but there's barely 2 minutes of video that they used it keeps repeating repeating repeating to hammer hammer hammer the point home. It's obviously propaganda that why it's so hard to believe how the anti-PP people are going at this. I know most anti-PP people are conservative and don't like Mike Moore's movies, guess what, this is the same thing. If you think you can't just believe a Mike Moore movie then you should be really thinking hard about why you're buying what you see in this video.
So my answer, is yes the nurse was trying to help her in the best way she thought she could. And we can "what if" all night long but we will never know everything that was said. We don't know if the part where she said she would get thrown out if she was found to be pregnant was edited out. If you don't believe the nurse was at least trying to help the girl then you must believe she's an evil baby hating ***** that's trying to exterminate the next generation 1 baby at a time. Can you really say you believe that???
This whole thing is really just incredible. Just because you saw it on YouTube doesn't mean it was true.