Vastator
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That's "A" theory by the way. Yours perhaps?The theory behind an attractive woman getting fat after marriage is that the man is not satisfying her sexually. I guarantee you that if a woman is sexually satisfied, feels sexy because of the way her man treats her, feels womanly all the time, etc.,she will not get fat. Food is a source of solace and comfort. If she is satisfied by her man, if she feels sensual and that her man longs for her sexually, she will not be looking for comfort or solace in food. When I see a fat married woman (or fat woman in a long term relationship), my belief is that he is not satisfying her sexually.Ain't this the truth! Talk about some bullshit...? How about when you hook up with a woman who is very attractive, fall in love, and all that shit; only to have her plump out; then ***** at you when things just don't feel the same... No shit! It's not the same. You got fat, and lazy! I can literally tell my exes relationship status from nothing more than a recent photo. She slims down to looking downright hot, when on the prowl. When she feels comfortable in the relationship, she starts packing on the fat like there's a famine coming. What the ****? And it seems to be this way with the majority of women.I don't think obesity should be celebrated and don't believe in 'fat acceptance.' Being obese is unhealthy and usually (if not always) is a result of bad habits, habits that are harmful to your health. But, if we are to express disapproval of obesity, we must also express disapproval of smoking, heavy drinking, and other unhealthful habits. Those also result in higher health care costs.I have nothing against the obese, per say. Believe me when I say that I'm quite lazy when it comes to exercise, and I enjoy food as much as the next guy.
But the point is, that fat people should recognize the consequences of their actions, and not expect the rest of us to love and celebrate and help them. This makes no sense. They were gluttonous, they refused to restrain their appetites while the rest of us did.
So yes, I do have a problem with all of these fat people taking up so much space everywhere, and driving up healthcare costs etc. They just persist and persist in their obesity, like kings. The rest of us are the healthy peons who serve them.
Well, no more from me. I don't hate you, but I'm not helping you anymore. My life does not consist in always helping fat people, anymore than I'm interested in always being there for the drunk alcoholics, smokers, and people who engage in risky behaviors. I'm not interested in this "everyone is special" "we are all awesome" BS. You make the choices and live or die by them. I'm interested in healthy, normal people who can help themselves.
The paper argued that women should be happier when fat, and that men are manipulated into unhappiness when they are not attracted to fat women.
Though it is possible. Women do tend to tire of the same-old, same old... That's why they have a tendency to cheat as frequently as they do. So I can see your point. It could be partly a coping strategy, forcing themselves to be "faithful", when they really want some new dick, yet another source of attention for validation; and in response to their frustration they over eat... Very likely... Good point.