I see the allegory of Lots wife not looking back, but what exactly is the allegory of Lots giving his virgin daughters to be gang banged and Lots dtrs getting him drunk to get pg with him. Tell me the lesson to be learned from this? I just do not wear my Rose tinted glasses anymore.
Well some historical context can help a bit here. First, by custom, when someone had visitors it was the responsibility of the host to protect them in every way. This was critical in order for commerce to thrive and for society to develop and grow. The importance of this cannot be understated. Some have suggested that the sin of Sodom was, at least in part, a refusal to honor this sacred obligation to protect and care for travellers.
Also in antiquity, a gang rape by the men of the town was a common way to show power. It wasn't a sexual act for getting their rocks off. When a tribe conquered another tribe, the chief or king would commonly be gang raped by the soldiers in front of the people to demonstrate that the king was no longer in charge and to humiliate him to the degree that he could no longer pose a threat. This was also done to diplomats and people who were enemies. So for example, if a king sent a diplomat to an enemy town to discuss something and it was rejected, the diplomat might be gang raped as if to say 'here's your answer and this is what we are going to do to you too'.
In regard to Sodom and Gomorrah, this is a consideration because they were at war with the Elamites and their allies. Lot was trying to save the cities from destruction and a show of power and authority over God's angels is showing power and authority over God. Not a wise thing to do when God is threatening to burn you to cinders. Why he offered his daughters? Perhaps he was hoping that that the gang would be satisfied by sexual release rather than a show of power. Perhaps he thought '
better for my daughters to get raped rather than angels of the Lord'. Maybe he thought, that as he had the obligation to protect his visitors in every way, that giving his daughters was his only choice.
But in Gen. 19:8-9, it is written, "
8 Look, I have two daughters who have never slept with a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do what you like with them. But don’t do anything to these men, for they have come under the protection of my roof.” 9 “Get out of our way,” they replied. “This fellow came here as a foreigner, and now he wants to play the judge! We’ll treat you worse than them.” They kept bringing pressure on Lot and moved forward to break down the door."
So it seems to me that what is happening is that Lot believes the gang wants sex and he has an obligation to protect his visitors. This is a sacred obligation especially when the visitors are angels of God. But the allusion to a foreigner playing judge tells me that the motivation of the gang was not get their rocks off. They wanted to find out who these strangers were and demonstrate their power over them as they were at war with neighboring tribes. So the story is about power and arrogance not about sex.