Personal antecdote here:
My father, a smoker, died two weeks ago at the age of 76 of a massive heart attack. Most likely, the cigarettes contributed to his death (although heart disease runs in his family).
Let's just say that our family took comfort in the fact that he died so quickly. He was not the type of man who wanted to live to 85 in a nursing home with a colostomy bag. That is not what he considered "living".
Is this where we're headed? Do we really want to live to be 100? Is that the government's goal? Smokers die early. Believe it or not, THEY SAVE THE GOVERNMENT MONEY!
I want to go the same way as my dad. Good grief.
First of all, my condolences. Losing someone we love is never easy.
I am not certain that smokers actually do cost us more money when it comes to healthcare, because they do die sooner. On a personal note, I quit smoking a little over eight months ago, after smoking for over 30 years. Not only did I stop smoking, but I started working out and running. I lost 12 pounds after quitting due to getting into shape. I just ran a 5K in under 24 minutes. My weight is great, I have more energy, I can breath normally, my blood pressure is now around 110/65, and my resting heart rate is down to 45.
When I decided to finally quit smoking, I did it for a number of reasons. One was that I simply was having trouble breathing. I couldn't even play a game of basketball with my boys. Do I want to live to be 85 or 100? Hell yes, if I am in good health. If I am not in good health, than I'm with you, get it over with. My biggest motivation for quitting was not wanting to spend the last ten years of my life carrying around an 8 pound canister filled with oxygen and having to have tubes stuck up my nose 24/7. That to me would be worse than dying. So I get the argument about not wanting to extend someone's life just for the sake of extending it, but when a person can have control of all their faculties and remain in relatively good health, why not live to 100?
BTW, my father turns 75 this year. He still works 40 hours per week and lives life to the fullest. He quit smoking when he was 30 and he is doing great.