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Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.#5 doesn't work with me. If they don't call the next morning, or even after we part, they are done.
They need to like me so much they can't help themselves. It has to go both ways, it won't seem desperate if I'm as crazy about them as they are about me.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.#5 doesn't work with me. If they don't call the next morning, or even after we part, they are done.
They need to like me so much they can't help themselves. It has to go both ways, it won't seem desperate if I'm as crazy about them as they are about me.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.#5 doesn't work with me. If they don't call the next morning, or even after we part, they are done.
They need to like me so much they can't help themselves. It has to go both ways, it won't seem desperate if I'm as crazy about them as they are about me.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.#5 doesn't work with me. If they don't call the next morning, or even after we part, they are done.
They need to like me so much they can't help themselves. It has to go both ways, it won't seem desperate if I'm as crazy about them as they are about me.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.#5 doesn't work with me. If they don't call the next morning, or even after we part, they are done.
They need to like me so much they can't help themselves. It has to go both ways, it won't seem desperate if I'm as crazy about them as they are about me.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
When I was 27, I experienced "love at first sight". It wasn't just sexual, either. It was total obsession on both of our parts. It only happened to me once in my life, thank god. Unfortunately, it happen to her all the time. Yes, we got married.....with predictable results. It was the most disastrous 3 years of my entire life.
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
When I was 27, I experienced "love at first sight". It wasn't just sexual, either. It was total obsession on both of our parts. It only happened to me once in my life, thank god. Unfortunately, it happen to her all the time. Yes, we got married.....with predictable results. It was the most disastrous 3 years of my entire life.
How long ago was that Vandle? Did you have any kids?
Wow, you have a hair trigger. You want someone that's either desperate or phony. Calling the next morning is a bit needy. Or he's applying as much sugar as he can to get laid.
I agree 100%
Because either the guy is laying it on thick to get the drawls or he'll call and give that attention and you'll think he's a sucker with no options. Also, if you dismiss a guy for not calling the next day you didnt really like him in the first place
What if they SAY they will call the next day? Sorry but if I meet a guy and feel like we click, and I can't wait to talk to him, I expect him to feel the same way, and act on it. I also don't want a guy that will not live up to his word. That starts day 1
If you feel that way why wont you call?
See? Its all a game
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
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At your age, you expect a potential partner to respond to a text within 10 min?
What if he's at work in a meeting?
Or in a movie theatre & turned off his phone?
If you are really interested in him, got good vibes before, you have to be more patient with men, like you expect them to be with you.
(1) They think about sex most of the time
(2) They are not interested in what you like unless it's something they like
(3) They will lose respect for you very easily if you are too "fast" but will think you are a tease if too "slow"
(4) They want you to be sweet and polite in public; but the opposite in bed
(5) Most important! IF THE DON'T CALL, THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED!
Mostly right
False
False
All the way True
Mostly correct but you cant seem too desperate either
Okay so for the falses:
What kind of woman interests you? Personality/interests?
What makes you respect/disrespect a woman?
(1) They think about sex most of the time
(2) They are not interested in what you like unless it's something they like
(3) They will lose respect for you very easily if you are too "fast" but will think you are a tease if too "slow"
(4) They want you to be sweet and polite in public; but the opposite in bed
(5) Most important! IF THE DON'T CALL, THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED!
Mostly right
False
False
All the way True
Mostly correct but you cant seem too desperate either
Okay so for the falses:
What kind of woman interests you? Personality/interests?
What makes you respect/disrespect a woman?
A woman that can think for herself and loves being herself.
What make me respect a woman is her ability to speak her mind and never backing down from what she believe in.
What would make me lose all respect is if she is two face and says one thing and does another...
I think about sex probably as much as you do.
I treat a woman with respect in bed and outside bed, and was taught to never show them disrespect or treated them like a lady of the night.
If a guy does not call then he was never worth it and is just a punk.
I have never went with a fast and easy woman because if I wanted that I would just pay for a lady of the night and save myself the time of pretending I am interested in that easy one.
Just my opinion...
I would call! Or text! Depends on how we left off - it's not a game, it's getting to know each other. If I texted or called him, and he didn't answer or respond right away (say, 10 minutes), I would write him off most likely. If you are nutty for someone, it will (should) be mutual. If not, time to move on. Fortunately, I'm married and don't have to worry about this stuff anymore.... but I pretty much know what I want and what I will and won't tolerate.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
When I was 27, I experienced "love at first sight". It wasn't just sexual, either. It was total obsession on both of our parts. It only happened to me once in my life, thank god. Unfortunately, it happen to her all the time. Yes, we got married.....with predictable results. It was the most disastrous 3 years of my entire life.
How long ago was that Vandle? Did you have any kids?
Several decades ago. No, there were no kids.
She was one sick puppy. I pity the poor guys that came after me...except the married ones.
With all due respect, Bonzi, you would have scared me away. I would have seen the word "needy" in neon on your forehead. Only guys who are hard up can get past that impression.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
When I was 27, I experienced "love at first sight". It wasn't just sexual, either. It was total obsession on both of our parts. It only happened to me once in my life, thank god. Unfortunately, it happen to her all the time. Yes, we got married.....with predictable results. It was the most disastrous 3 years of my entire life.
How long ago was that Vandle? Did you have any kids?
Several decades ago. No, there were no kids.
She was one sick puppy. I pity the poor guys that came after me...except the married ones.
Are you married now? If not, did you have a successful marriage? What was the "difference"?
That is about all the specifics i want to offer about myself on a public board.
Awww... too bad ... I just love that initial rush of infatuation and sexual chemistry! What can I say???
It's funny you say that too cause my husband says I am not jealous enough and too distant! Irony!
When I was 27, I experienced "love at first sight". It wasn't just sexual, either. It was total obsession on both of our parts. It only happened to me once in my life, thank god. Unfortunately, it happen to her all the time. Yes, we got married.....with predictable results. It was the most disastrous 3 years of my entire life.
How long ago was that Vandle? Did you have any kids?
Several decades ago. No, there were no kids.
She was one sick puppy. I pity the poor guys that came after me...except the married ones.
Are you married now? If not, did you have a successful marriage? What was the "difference"?
Not married. Never want to be married again. In fact, in this retirement community, I see an awful lot of people who are married just out of habit, and are clearly not happy. Even they often don't realize it. I sincerely enjoy my own company. I am mostly a pretty easy going guy, and I never again want to come home, find an angry face meeting me, and have to spend the evening trying to figure out why.
That is about all the specifics i want to offer about myself on a public board.
(1) They think about sex most of the time
(2) They are not interested in what you like unless it's something they like
(3) They will lose respect for you very easily if you are too "fast" but will think you are a tease if too "slow"
(4) They want you to be sweet and polite in public; but the opposite in bed
(5) Most important! IF THEY DON'T CALL, THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED!
Real Men dont give a dam what other people think "real men" should do. If a girl fucks me on the first night thats because I'm so fucking awesome she couldnt resist. Dudes put themselves down when they believe that sex on the first date was because the girl was a hoe and not because they are just smooth players
Any man who would engage in any sexual act on a first date us themselves a WHORE of epic proportions. Your mentality is rampant in American society today and part of why we are so fucked up.
False on number 3. That is sooooo 1950's......
I'll give you that - so what keeps a guy interested then?
I have found that it varies, and, if a guy sticks around, it can be for a variety of reasons.
If he really is interested or cares, though, you only have to see how much attention he is paying when you talk.
