Mens view of what makes a woman attractive vs women’s view

[initforme]

A highly paid highly educated woman is very attractive. It means they are strong, smart, and can take care of themdselves. Self sufficient. Attractive x 100

 

[braalian]

I have to think that most of the effort women put into their appearance is out of competitiveness with other women.

Making it even more ironic that they seem to think lip fillers and weird nails will attract men

With that said, I’ve definitely noticed that after a certain point large muscles are only impressive to other guys. They seem to be attracted to guys with smaller pretty-boy muscles and don’t seem interested at all in how much one can bench

So I guess both sexes are guilty of this sometimes

 

[Crepitus]

99.9% of men don’t care. And that might be overly generous.

Long, ridiculous nails make black girls look like they’re straight from the projects and white girls look like white trash from the trailer park

Women who spend copious amounts of time and money on absurd nails and hair extensions/weaves/whatever are ridiculous human beings

Pretty judgmental of you.

 

[Seymour Flops]

As a nurse, I shudder when I see CNAs with those nails.

They’re not supposed to have them on the job, but so many are obsessed with nails it’s hard to enforce.

A huge part of their job is wiping butts

Ouch, ouch, ouch.

 

[whoisit]

Women are far more judgmental about looks than men in general. Some feminists try to suggest guys are the ones that have pushed these unfair standards onto them, when in reality it was other women. Guys are really not that picky. I think all of the guys here can attest to that.

Women's rights went wrong decades ago.
We threw the baby out with the bathwater, so to speak.
The courts lost respect for us and we lost child support laws.
Early 1960s I had a judge ask me why I wasn't working, although I had 3 babies at home to care for while my husband had 6 babies, all while married to me.
Wild times for sure.

 

[martybegan]

I still can’t figure how they wipe their ass with nails that long

Bidets.

 

[Hafar1014]

Fat is not where its at thats all there is to it

 

[martybegan]

Definitely some truth here. Men on the other hand want young, heathy women who could bear and raise their children. If they offered abundant feeding opportunities for the newborns, so much the better.

I'm going to have to remember "abundant feeding opportunities" as another way of saying "major league Yabbos"

 

[rightwinger]

Women's rights went wrong decades ago.
We threw the baby out with the bathwater, so to speak.

Women’s rights went in the other direction
No bra, little makeup, t shirts, hair in a pony tail
Todays women spend thousands on cosmetics, nails, lashes, hair extensions, cosmetic surgery for beauty most men don’t care about

 

[Mr Natural]

Women’s rights went in the other direction
No bra, little makeup, t shirts, hair in a pony tail
Todays women spend thousands on cosmetics, nails, lashes, hair extensions, cosmetic surgery for beauty most men don’t care about

Ah, the braless days!

I remember them fondly (for the most part).

 

[Rocko]

Nails: I have never seen a man say…..Check out the nails on that chick
Yet, women will spend hundreds a month on their nails

Lips: Never seen a man say….She is nice looking but her lips are not puffy enough

Eyes/ Lashes: Done well are very attractive. More is not better

Tattoos/ Piercing: Matter of personal taste some like, for some it is a turn off

Perfume: Generally alluring

Smoking: Doesn’t make a woman attractive

Clothes: Worth the investment

Boob job: For the most part, will attract men

True. Look at what women spend on designer bags. I’ve never seen a guy say would you look at the bag on that one.

 

[whoisit]

Women’s rights went in the other direction
No bra, little makeup, t shirts, hair in a pony tail
Todays women spend thousands on cosmetics, nails, lashes, hair extensions, cosmetic surgery for beauty most men don’t care about

This too is true, most of today's women care more about having a big house and auto than concerns about their children's future.
Then again, my generation had lots to do with this attitude.
Guess fault also has to do with the times?

 

[ShahdagMountains]

I like women with great big




brains.

You mean sapiosexuals?

 

[martybegan]

True. Look at what women spend on designer bags. I’ve never seen a guy say would you look at the bag on that one.

funbags, not designer bags.

 

[Admiral Rockwell Tory]

Nails: I have never seen a man say…..Check out the nails on that chick
Yet, women will spend hundreds a month on their nails
Lips: Never seen a man say….She is nice looking but her lips are not puffy enough

Agree 100%.

Eyes/ Lashes: Done well are very attractive. More is not better

Never ever been a fan of fakes eyelashes or gloppy makeup on natural ones. The fakes are square and unnatural most of the time.

Tattoos/ Piercing: Matter of personal taste some like, for some it is a turn off

Generally I dislike them, but some are tolerable. Cannot stand booger catchers, nose bull rings, or eyebrow piercings.

Perfume: Generally alluring

Smoking: Doesn’t make a woman attractive

Clothes: Worth the investment

Agree 100%.

Boob job: For the most part, will attract men

Disagree 100%. The biggest turnoff is a set of plastic melons on a woman with the build of a teenage boy.

 

[ShahdagMountains]

I'll never forget I was in a strip club, with a table way to one side, and I had a view of the stipper's waiting room, and a stripper was in custom waiting her turn, and sitting there reading a book.

It was... oddly exciting.

Have you ever been round the Red Light district of Amsterdam?

Some girls displaying themselves in the windows pass the time by knitting.

 

[Admiral Rockwell Tory]

Id they have a very high paying job is a requirement for attraction.

Methusaleh, you seem to have this strange obsession with money.

 

[Admiral Rockwell Tory]

Women's rights went wrong decades ago.
We threw the baby out with the bathwater, so to speak.
The courts lost respect for us and we lost child support laws.
Early 1960s I had a judge ask me why I wasn't working, although I had 3 babies at home to care for while my husband had 6 babies, all while married to me.
Wild times for sure.

My God, how old are you?

 

[whoisit]

My God, how old are you?

That was a typo, I'm in my mid 70s. I meant early 70s not 60s.

 

[Foxfyre]

Nails: I have never seen a man say…..Check out the nails on that chick
Yet, women will spend hundreds a month on their nails

Lips: Never seen a man say….She is nice looking but her lips are not puffy enough

Eyes/ Lashes: Done well are very attractive. More is not better

Tattoos/ Piercing: Matter of personal taste some like, for some it is a turn off

Perfume: Generally alluring

Smoking: Doesn’t make a woman attractive

Clothes: Worth the investment

Boob job: For the most part, will attract men

I have no idea what actually attracts men to women. Some of my classmates in high school and college I thought were beautiful women, but men just weren't attracted to them. They didn't get asked for dates. On prom nights they were home.

Nor do I know for sure what attracts women to men. I knew and dated a lot of guys, many really nice looking with lots of potential, that I just couldn't get excited about. But some made my heart go pitter pat in a major way.

When I met my husband decades ago, I never looked back. Poor as a church mouse. Nice looking but not the best looking in town by far. But I knew from the beginning he was the one.

Human chemistry between the sexes is very difficult to define.