So Renae - why can't that "transgender woman" simply use the correct facility, do their business, and then leave? I promise you this much - you will survive if you don't dress like a woman and use the women's restroom 24x7. I promise. You'll be just fine. You have plenty of time at home to dress like a woman and use the bathroom like a woman. There are two things here that don't add up:
- Your refusal to seek the healthcare you need. And while I completely support your freedom to choose for yourself whether you seek help or not (as that is what American was founded on), it really doesn't make sense that if using the correct facility causes you so much mental anguish that you wouldn't seek help so that you don't have to suffer.
- Your belief that your problems should be society's problem. Your position seems to be that all of society should have to adjust to you instead of you adjusting to all of society. I have no doubt that you're hurting and I do genuinely feel for you but I refuse to let my two precious young daughters hurt just because you do and you subscribe to "misery loves company" (and especially when you choose not to seek help).
Uhm, because I AM a woman, and I am not going to hide at home because people like you are afraid of what you do not understand. I go out, and you wouldn't know I was male. I use the restroom, you wouldn't know I had a penis. Sorry to burst your bubble but I don't walk in, throw the stall open and just whip it out and start deep voice leering at teh girls. I know you have this sick vision of that but no... sorry.
1, What healthcare I need? Huh? I'm under the best care, I have a therapist, and endocrinologist who see me on a regular basis. I've been to ten different therapist and spent the last 20 years fighting this. You think I haven't tried? You're insane. The suffering has been allowing the hateful beliefs you harbor, which I too once thought were more accurate, to force me to deny the truth of who I am.
2. Actually no, I'm quite the opposite. You label me because you are willfully ignorant. I agree that a pre-op should not be getting undressed in a public area. That's rude, it's inappropriate, it makes others uncomfortable and children don't need to face that reality. I ask only that you show a little compassion and courtesy, I show the same in return. See the thing sis I'm really not an in your face Trans activist. I'm passionate on the subject, obviously it's rather personal, however I think you'll find I'm highly conservative on most issues, I'm very deferential to society. But Right, is Right. I'm a woman, sorry to break it to you but Sex and Gender are not the same. I am not sexual pervert, I'm not a threat to anyone, I'm just a lady with a birth defect trying to live a happy life. You wish to condemn me to hiding from your view, because YOU are the one with a problem.
Like I said before, you and the others like you argue like either leftist liberals of the worst sorts or KKK Goons. Your arguments are based in ignorance, hate and fear. You stance is predicated on a falsehood.
I pity you, but I'm still gonna use the ladies room, it's only appropriate.