I have nothing against homemaking & being a domestic engineer. I've been one for the last 28 out of my 30 year (& counting) marriage, but that was MY choice... not because I was forced into it. That is the difference between your philosophy & mine. Your attitude towards women in general is sickening & if you are alone, there's no doubt as to why.
So you've been a honemaker (Engineer in a job title requires a degree and certification twsting). Good for you. What i believe you're missing is that the same values which would require you to stay at home REQUIRE your husband to be sure he can provide for you. Even if that means working a,job he hates.
Ive been married for almist 15 months to a wonderful Puerto Rican woman whose only goal in life us,to be a wife, homemaker, and hopefully mother. It took me almost 40 years to find her but we're both very content with our situation.