Yes and no.
1. Since sexual relations are private and not the jurisdiction of the state,
I would recommend this be addressed through education on healthy and abusive relations.
Local parents, teachers, schools communities would have to agree how to teach this
so they don't impose beliefs but include all views without discrimination or harassment.
2. within THAT context, of agreeing to include all input equally while deciding personally and not imposing through govt, I would recommend that couples be taught to resolve conflicts in advance and AGREE on a policy to follow. if people have different beliefs about abortion, this is generally a danger sign not to risk getting pregnant. Those conflicts should be worked out in advance to prevent coersion or abuse.
and YES it can go both ways
I heard of cases of men suing to try to stop abortion of their children and failing legally to stop it; this should have been discussed in advance and an agreement made or else only have sex with partners who agree to the same views and decisions, or agree to decide by CONSENSUS.
I would be more apt to push the idea that if people would not agree to have the baby if pregnancy occurs then DON'T HAVE SEX
Don't take the risk. even if you both agree not to have the baby, or to give it up for adoption it is traumatic and problematic.
what if you have a sick or disabled child requiring extensive medical care or costs.
what if one partner dies or moves, loses a job, or the family has a medical emergency
and can't help with a new child
ALL these things should be discussed in ADVANCE.
Ideally both partners should agree or NOT HAVE SEX.
so that is where both partners are EQUAL
in the decision BEFORE having sex.
so YES at that point the man has equal right to express consent or dissent
regarding abortion or other choices BEFORE having sex and BEFORE taking the risk of pregnancy.
After pregnancy, if one or both do not stick to the agreement after a pregnancy results,
the woman is affected physically more than the man because she is carrying the child.
so any conflicts need to be worked out BEFORE that, preferably BEFORE having sex and even taking any such risks.
It is the position of prochoice people that abortion is not murder. The fetus before viability outside the womb does not have a right to life that trumps the will of the potential mother. Thus, the pregnant female may legally use abortion as a method of birth control if she decides that she does not want the responsibilities of a child for any reason. She may even get an abortion against the wishes of the potential father.
However, if the male does not want a child, the female can go through with the pregnancy anyway. The male currently has no choice at this point but the female does. The male could be on the hook for 18 years of child support if the female has the baby.
I purpose that if a fetus is not a baby, not a legally protected human life, then the male should be able to op out of his responsibility for the pregnancy. He should be able to legally inform the female that if she does not use the available contraception of abortion, then she is responsible for the child that is born as a consequence of the pregnancy.
Prochoice people, am I wrong? Why or why not?
Too much rape and coercion and relationship abuse occurs
to give this much power to men to make it the woman's responsibility or fault.
it has to be mutual responsibility if either party is going to have equal say in it.