And to make it stick as rape you need to convict them in court.
How do you tell the difference between someone who was told no and continued, and some woman who says she said "no" after regretting what happened the next morning?
So we lump together rapist rapists, the ones who use force or drugs, and some guy who started sex with a consenting woman and may not have gotten the concept that she wanted to stop mid coitus? Or as I said above completed the act while both parties were hammered, and then the woman decided she regretted it the next morning?
I'll do it. I'm a woman.
You have a valid point. This is not the first time that campus rape became an issue. This is the second time around the block.
Yes, it needs to be investigated by the authorities and they need to be convicted in a court of law. I agree with this. Due process. There are cases of girls that make false allegations. There are cases of girls that wake up and feel guilty. There are also cases of girls that wake up and are trying to figure out if it was sexual assault or if they were willing participants.
Are there Frat boys or members of the upper crust that think that women exist for their own immediate gratification? Yep. Skip the campus and go the police. The worst thing that can happen is that they say, it isn't that it didn't happen or was not real there just isn't enough evidence to file charges.
The statistics that were used are not in any way valid. We wouldn't use those types of statistics without a yes, but.......
In fact, even when we utilize date from the NCVS we know that it is off due to the possibility of over reporting and under reporting and that isn't even an anonymous online survey with any rewards.
Now, at any time during or before, she says no then that's it. Hands off. The Swarthmore case constitutes rape. It's not relevant that they had been hooking up for 3 months before.
This is where George Will ran into problems:
a coveted status that confers privileges.
"And academias progressivism has rendered it intellectually defenseless now that progressivisms achievement, the regulatory state, has decided it is academias turn to be broken to governments saddle."
It's the most lame shit that I have ever read. Frankly, it is these types of phrases that he uses in his columns that destroy his credibility.
Now, if he said or you said.............it was invited because of what she was wearing or she was at a bar (at all) or at a party (at all) then I would raise all kinds of hell. There are men that really think that mere presence gives them free license. They really do exist both on and off campus.
We need to start having really frank discussions of sex, relationships, and hook ups. By we I mean society as a whole.