You're really not getting this are you? You made an assumption and expected it go without comment? Said comments were not assumptions, but were based on the assumption made by you. Now you could admit that you stuck your foot in your mouth. Or not....
You're making... hell, have already made, a mountain out of a mole hill. For what purpose I don't know. I simply added to the already flowing conversation that shaving was a polite thing to do to make it more pleasurable for men to go down on a woman. Now for some reason you threw in some personal problem with it about communicating when none was present. Now if you have someone in your life that needs to be told to communicate, that does not automatically roll over onto this board. You brought your personal problems into the conversation and you shouldn't have. They're completely irrelevant. Perhaps you could start a thread about communication and why it's a problem in your life, then maybe we'd all know why you've blown this into such a major issue.
Here's another tip: Chill out and get a grip.