Exactly. It's not the gays that have to demonstrate a compelling state interest in allowing us to legally marry, it is those that are opposed that must demonstrate the compelling state interest in keeping us from legally marrying. Nobody has been able to do that.
I have:
1. Setting an example for kids to "emulate and feel is OK" of the type of sex that HIV is spreading rampantly from and infecting a sudden spike in boys ages 13-24.
2. Mental illness in the LGBT crowd: Why are lipstick lesbians attracted to mannish women who wear strapons? And "top" gay men attracted to effeminant "bottoms"? There is such an obvious streak of closted heterosexuality in the gay population that is unexplored, unexamined and buried deep but obvious for all healthy people to see that people exhibiting mental issues that are quite profound like these...and wanting to amputate healthy organs to play-act the opposite gender/reject their own gender ... Deep deep mental illness is obvious. You don't normalize that via the iconic vehicle of marriage. It sends the wrong impression to kids about what society as a whole values as "normal".
3. LGBT functions as a cult. It has a strong recruitment presence now in public schools [evangelizing], it has indocrinated as a matter of law that minors cannot get reparative therapy on their own until they're 18, even when molestation was the event they trace to where their compulsive homosexuality began..yet multiple outreach groups encourage "bi curious" kids to "come out" to parties thrown as lures to tempt them into the fold. Heretics are punished [Anne Heche/Mozilla Firefox/Pope Benedict etc.] Their messiah Harvey Milk who so very recently over 60+ LGBT groups across North America had a postage stamp dedicated to the LGBT movement, had as his sexuality the sodomizing of orphaned teen homeless boys, mentally ill and further damaged by drug abuse. One after the other..
There are a thousand excellent reasons why LGBT marriage should not be. Pick any one you like. Add your own here.
Should they be persecuted? No. The mentally ill need help and understanding. Should we promote this behavior and its resulting cult via marriage? No. The mentally ill need help and understanding but their behavior must not be held out to others as "normal".
Not in any way.
Most especially not via marriage: the acme of the social icon of normalcy..