Josh Josh Josh....

Yes they are horrible parents but it is my understanding that they got all children involved professional help. Assuming that is the case, what more should they have done. And as far as when they went to the police....who cares. VERY few parents would take their kid to the police in this kind of a situation. They would want to handle it internally to save their child from the risk of legal consequences. If your son brushed his fingers over a girl's breasts while she slept would you haul him down to the cops? If you say yes, I say you are full of shit. :lol:



Now you're downplaying what Josh actually did. He did this to 4 or 5 (4 sisters I believe) girls. He has a real sickness, and it's a sickness that doesn't go away. I would have sent him to a facility that deals with his type of illness. And I'm not going to assume they sent him or the girls for professional help, because they never stated they took them to a licensed therapist.


Michelle Duggar recounts a story that her husband told his older children “to explain the importance of purity.”

“Imagine that your parents are going to surprise you and give you a brand-new bike for Christmas. Two weeks before Christmas, they buy your bike and hide it in the storage shed in the backyard. But then the boy next door sneaks into the shed and borrows your new bike; he stunt-rides it up and down the back alley.

“On Christmas morning your parents lead you out to the shed to reveal the special gift they bought for you, and as they open the door and say, ‘Surprise!’ they’re just as surprised as you are. You’re all shocked to see that the bike looks like it’s been thrown off a cliff. The front fender is missing, and the front tire is warped so it rubs on the frame. It’s dirty, the paint is all scratched and chipped, and the seat has a big rip in it. It looks worse than something you would have bought at a garage sale.

“I’m sure you would still be grateful for the bike, and you would have fun riding it, but it won’t be in the condition your parents had hoped and dreamed it would be when you received it. You would miss out on a lot of the enjoyment they meant for you to have.

“In that same way, we don’t want any boy (or girl) to come and steal your purity.”

Note the emphasis: The onus to protect your purity is on you. If someone steals your purity, you are a ruined bicycle with warped tires and a ripped seat. Your value has been stolen. Your parents’ dreams are ruined. You are used and cheap and valueless.

This is a horrible thing to tell anyone.

The Duggars’ dangerous cult of purity


Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?


It's a nice deflection but you overlook the main point. Statistically, according to multiple studies, juvenile offenders re-offend at a very low rate. Your position was that juvenile offenders re-offend at a very high rate. Your position is invalid regardless of whatever spin you wish to put upon it. Just admit you were wrong and move on. Sheesh.
 
Anna Duggar 'partially blames herself' for husband Josh cheating and using porn - while her mother-in-law Michelle's top marriage tip is to NOT deny your spouse sex
  • Anna Duggar has four children with husband of nearly seven years, Josh
  • She will likely 'on some level... absorb some of the blame' for spouse's admitted infidelity and secret pornography addiction, family insider says
  • There is also 'no way' she will leave reality star - despite the new scandal
  • Anna 'is fully committed to her marriage and children,' the insider claims
  • If Anna has been adhering to her mom-in-law Michelle's top marriage tip, she will have said 'yes' to sex whenever Josh, 27, has wished to have it
  • Michelle has said she does not deny husband Jim Bob sex, even if tired
  • There are exceptions, however; Michelle does not have sex for 80 days after birth of daughter, for 40 days after birth of son, or when on period
  • Josh admitted on Thursday to being unfaithful to his wife and having an addiction to online porn in statement that followed Ashley Madison hack

Read more: Anna Duggar 'partly blames herself' for Josh cheating and using porn
Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook

She and her mom just don't get it - Josh doesn't want wife sex. He wants to cheat on this wife and the second account is so he can cheat on the woman he's cheating on.

And little girls. THAT is what is wife if for - to crank out new victims for her husband.


Actually you don't get it. This kid was raised in an ultra-repressive environment by a woman who is a hoarder (she just hoards children) and a man who doesn't have enough balls to say enough is enough. The environment was extremely religious and emphasized the exact wrong kind of religious adherence. He was denied any form of healthy sexual exploration or experimentation and so now he is doing what people who were raised in such situations do....they try to find out what they have been missing and they do it in very destructive ways.

My guess is that this asshole doesn't want to cheat on his wife but the repressive environment he was brought up in has left him terribly ill prepared to deal with adult sexuality and it is manifesting itself in destructive behavior. This kind of shit happens all the time. This is a daily occurence
 
Now you're downplaying what Josh actually did. He did this to 4 or 5 (4 sisters I believe) girls. He has a real sickness, and it's a sickness that doesn't go away. I would have sent him to a facility that deals with his type of illness. And I'm not going to assume they sent him or the girls for professional help, because they never stated they took them to a licensed therapist.


Michelle Duggar recounts a story that her husband told his older children “to explain the importance of purity.”

“Imagine that your parents are going to surprise you and give you a brand-new bike for Christmas. Two weeks before Christmas, they buy your bike and hide it in the storage shed in the backyard. But then the boy next door sneaks into the shed and borrows your new bike; he stunt-rides it up and down the back alley.

“On Christmas morning your parents lead you out to the shed to reveal the special gift they bought for you, and as they open the door and say, ‘Surprise!’ they’re just as surprised as you are. You’re all shocked to see that the bike looks like it’s been thrown off a cliff. The front fender is missing, and the front tire is warped so it rubs on the frame. It’s dirty, the paint is all scratched and chipped, and the seat has a big rip in it. It looks worse than something you would have bought at a garage sale.

“I’m sure you would still be grateful for the bike, and you would have fun riding it, but it won’t be in the condition your parents had hoped and dreamed it would be when you received it. You would miss out on a lot of the enjoyment they meant for you to have.

“In that same way, we don’t want any boy (or girl) to come and steal your purity.”

Note the emphasis: The onus to protect your purity is on you. If someone steals your purity, you are a ruined bicycle with warped tires and a ripped seat. Your value has been stolen. Your parents’ dreams are ruined. You are used and cheap and valueless.

This is a horrible thing to tell anyone.

The Duggars’ dangerous cult of purity


Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?
Where do you get your information that he never received professional counseling? You seem to spread rumors you hear instead of finding out facts.



TrinityPower

According to various news outlets, its true that his only "counseling" was to be sent to live with a child pornographer. There are several threads about this - read the links in those threads.

You said you defended this man and his family. If you still do, you are truly defending the indefensible.




Now you're downplaying what Josh actually did. He did this to 4 or 5 (4 sisters I believe) girls. He has a real sickness, and it's a sickness that doesn't go away. I would have sent him to a facility that deals with his type of illness. And I'm not going to assume they sent him or the girls for professional help, because they never stated they took them to a licensed therapist.


Michelle Duggar recounts a story that her husband told his older children “to explain the importance of purity.”

“Imagine that your parents are going to surprise you and give you a brand-new bike for Christmas. Two weeks before Christmas, they buy your bike and hide it in the storage shed in the backyard. But then the boy next door sneaks into the shed and borrows your new bike; he stunt-rides it up and down the back alley.

“On Christmas morning your parents lead you out to the shed to reveal the special gift they bought for you, and as they open the door and say, ‘Surprise!’ they’re just as surprised as you are. You’re all shocked to see that the bike looks like it’s been thrown off a cliff. The front fender is missing, and the front tire is warped so it rubs on the frame. It’s dirty, the paint is all scratched and chipped, and the seat has a big rip in it. It looks worse than something you would have bought at a garage sale.

“I’m sure you would still be grateful for the bike, and you would have fun riding it, but it won’t be in the condition your parents had hoped and dreamed it would be when you received it. You would miss out on a lot of the enjoyment they meant for you to have.

“In that same way, we don’t want any boy (or girl) to come and steal your purity.”

Note the emphasis: The onus to protect your purity is on you. If someone steals your purity, you are a ruined bicycle with warped tires and a ripped seat. Your value has been stolen. Your parents’ dreams are ruined. You are used and cheap and valueless.

This is a horrible thing to tell anyone.

The Duggars’ dangerous cult of purity


Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?


It's a nice deflection but you overlook the main point. Statistically, according to multiple studies, juvenile offenders re-offend at a very low rate. Your position was that juvenile offenders re-offend at a very high rate. Your position is invalid regardless of whatever spin you wish to put upon it. Just admit you were wrong and move on. Sheesh.

BluePhantom

You are the one who is wrong.

Pedophiles are pedophiles for their entire lives. They don't molest once and then never again. When you hear of an adult pedo, you can bet he started as a child.

Where do you think adult pedo's come from?

Their cult demands that the woman have as many children as possible. That means Josh has a never ending supply of vicitims.

Even Josh's own father said it was common among their friends. The words he used - " a lot". He also said that 'a lot of their friend's were a lot worse'. He said those things during that horrendous interview on fox.
 
Anna Duggar 'partially blames herself' for husband Josh cheating and using porn - while her mother-in-law Michelle's top marriage tip is to NOT deny your spouse sex
  • Anna Duggar has four children with husband of nearly seven years, Josh
  • She will likely 'on some level... absorb some of the blame' for spouse's admitted infidelity and secret pornography addiction, family insider says
  • There is also 'no way' she will leave reality star - despite the new scandal
  • Anna 'is fully committed to her marriage and children,' the insider claims
  • If Anna has been adhering to her mom-in-law Michelle's top marriage tip, she will have said 'yes' to sex whenever Josh, 27, has wished to have it
  • Michelle has said she does not deny husband Jim Bob sex, even if tired
  • There are exceptions, however; Michelle does not have sex for 80 days after birth of daughter, for 40 days after birth of son, or when on period
  • Josh admitted on Thursday to being unfaithful to his wife and having an addiction to online porn in statement that followed Ashley Madison hack

Read more: Anna Duggar 'partly blames herself' for Josh cheating and using porn
Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook

She and her mom just don't get it - Josh doesn't want wife sex. He wants to cheat on this wife and the second account is so he can cheat on the woman he's cheating on.

And little girls. THAT is what is wife if for - to crank out new victims for her husband.


Actually you don't get it. This kid was raised in an ultra-repressive environment by a woman who is a hoarder (she just hoards children) and a man who doesn't have enough balls to say enough is enough. The environment was extremely religious and emphasized the exact wrong kind of religious adherence. He was denied any form of healthy sexual exploration or experimentation and so now he is doing what people who were raised in such situations do....they try to find out what they have been missing and they do it in very destructive ways.

My guess is that this asshole doesn't want to cheat on his wife but the repressive environment he was brought up in has left him terribly ill prepared to deal with adult sexuality and it is manifesting itself in destructive behavior. This kind of shit happens all the time. This is a daily occurence


BluePhantom

I agree completely. This is a sick atmosphere in which to bring up children.

He's not just a pedo. I strongly suspect he's a sex addict but frankly, I don't care why he cheats on his wife. That's their business and their problem.

BUT, whatever the reason for his actions, he needs to be kept away from children.
 
About there being 37 million Americans signed up to cheat on Ashley Madison ... That's about half of the total number of married couples.

Proof there is no "sanctity of marriage".

And I am sure the liberals of the world are overjoyed to hear it


Why would they be?

Its the rabid RWs who rant against marriage equality and say it threatens "the sanctity of marriage".
 
Now you're downplaying what Josh actually did. He did this to 4 or 5 (4 sisters I believe) girls. He has a real sickness, and it's a sickness that doesn't go away. I would have sent him to a facility that deals with his type of illness. And I'm not going to assume they sent him or the girls for professional help, because they never stated they took them to a licensed therapist.


Michelle Duggar recounts a story that her husband told his older children “to explain the importance of purity.”

“Imagine that your parents are going to surprise you and give you a brand-new bike for Christmas. Two weeks before Christmas, they buy your bike and hide it in the storage shed in the backyard. But then the boy next door sneaks into the shed and borrows your new bike; he stunt-rides it up and down the back alley.

“On Christmas morning your parents lead you out to the shed to reveal the special gift they bought for you, and as they open the door and say, ‘Surprise!’ they’re just as surprised as you are. You’re all shocked to see that the bike looks like it’s been thrown off a cliff. The front fender is missing, and the front tire is warped so it rubs on the frame. It’s dirty, the paint is all scratched and chipped, and the seat has a big rip in it. It looks worse than something you would have bought at a garage sale.

“I’m sure you would still be grateful for the bike, and you would have fun riding it, but it won’t be in the condition your parents had hoped and dreamed it would be when you received it. You would miss out on a lot of the enjoyment they meant for you to have.

“In that same way, we don’t want any boy (or girl) to come and steal your purity.”

Note the emphasis: The onus to protect your purity is on you. If someone steals your purity, you are a ruined bicycle with warped tires and a ripped seat. Your value has been stolen. Your parents’ dreams are ruined. You are used and cheap and valueless.

This is a horrible thing to tell anyone.

The Duggars’ dangerous cult of purity


Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?
Where do you get your information that he never received professional counseling? You seem to spread rumors you hear instead of finding out facts.
Well I take the info from the parents and they told exactly what they did in an interview. Criticize on that which you will but I didn't read tabloid about it I watched the interview with the parents
 
Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?
Where do you get your information that he never received professional counseling? You seem to spread rumors you hear instead of finding out facts.
Well I take the info from the parents and they told exactly what they did in an interview. Criticize on that which you will but I didn't read tabloid about it I watched the interview with the parents



You know the police report, and the video of that interview are online.

What the parents say, and what the police reports says are two different things. The parents continuously downplay what actually took place. But I understand that you will believe what you want.

In the interview, if you'll start listening around 5 minutes and 30 seconds, Jim Bob talks about sending Josh to this friend of the family (a religious nutter, no doubt) where Josh was supposedly getting counselling, but what he doesn't tell you is that his friend was shut down over sexual allegations of his own, and that Josh only did construction work.

Maybe you can explain why you think Josh got proper treatment from a fellow pervert?



The parents flat out lied about none of their girls remembering what happened. One of the girls admitted that Josh pulled up her dress in the laundry room, her dress had a hole in it, and it felt weird.

It's all right here in the police report. Start reading at page 11.

Bombshell Duggar Police Report: Jim Bob Duggar Didn’t Report Son Josh’s Alleged Sex Offenses For More Than a Year - In Touch Weekly


In a separate interview with police, Michelle Duggar later says that the treatment program the person attended was not with a certified counselor but with a “guy they knew in Little Rock who is remodeling a building,” the report says.

A timeline of the molestation allegations against Josh Duggar
 
Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?
Where do you get your information that he never received professional counseling? You seem to spread rumors you hear instead of finding out facts.
Well I take the info from the parents and they told exactly what they did in an interview. Criticize on that which you will but I didn't read tabloid about it I watched the interview with the parents



This is not tabloid information. The person they chose to counsel Josh was a fellow pervert, as public records show. The cop that the parents chose to give Josh a stern talking to is also in prison for child pornography. Does that sound like good parenting to you?

Bill Gothard’s teachings have been promoted by the Duggar family in the past. In 2014, Gothard resigned from the Institute in Basic Life Principles following allegations of sexual harassment, molestation and failing to report child abuse. A spokesman for the Institute couldn’t confirm or deny to the Democrat-Gazette whether a youth treatment program was in place at the building in 2003.

A timeline of the molestation allegations against Josh Duggar
 
Perspective is everything Carla. For example, he released a statement saying he is addicted to porn. Well is he REALLY addicted to porn? Well maybe. I don't know how much porn he watches or how it affects his life. It could be that he watches the same amount of porn as every other man in the world (maybe even less) but because he perceives porn as something terrible and sinful then watching a small amount of porn makes you an addict. Meanwhile, another couple who was raised in a far healthier environment might look at his porn habits and say "pffft...big fucking deal. That is nothing". Now I am not saying he is or isn't a porn addict. That is for him to decide. I am just saying that your perception of "evil" or "good and bad" is going to depend on your background which shapes your perspective and the living environment you have created for yourself or has been thrust upon you.

Now....dont get me wrong. I am not defending this kids actions with these girls....but honestly I have seen a lot worse than brushing fingers over clothed breasts while someone slept. I am not saying that is ok. I am just saying that compared to a lot of other examples of child molestation, it's pretty light. I dated a girl in college whose father did FAR more to her on a weekly basis than brushing his fingers over her when she slept. That girl is fucked for life as a result. So what he did was wrong, yes...but this wasn't exactly hardcore molestation, rape, etc.

BTW...statistically most people who do this as children or adolescents do not continue the behavior as adults.This kid may prove to be the exception...who knows. What I will say is that this is a textbook example of how religion can be destructive when not approached in a healthy way



Do you have any link showing that when a 14 year old molests 4 sisters, some while sleeping, some while awake, he usually outgrows this behavior without any professional counseling? I'd like to see that bit of information.

"Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."

Fact:

Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.

Myth:
"Most sex offenders reoffend."

Fact:
Reconviction data suggest that this is not the case. Further, reoffense rates vary among different types of sex offenders and are related to specific characteristics of the offender and the offense."

CSOM Publications


"In fact, research has demonstrated that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are more likely to recidivate in a nonsexual rather than a sexual manner....

A relatively small percentage of juveniles who commit a sexual offense will sexually reoffend as adults. The message for policymakers is that juveniles who commit sexual offenses are not the same as adult sexual offenders, and that all juveniles who commit a sexual offense do not go on to sexually offend later in life
."

Chapter 3: Recidivism of Juveniles Who Commit Sexual Offenses | Sex Offender Management Assessment and Planning Initiative



How Often Do Juvenile Sex Offenders Reoffend?

Juvenile sex offenders appear to respond better to treatment and reoffend less frequently than adult sex offenders. Sexual reoffense rates for youth over several years are estimated at approximately 10%. In addition, if juvenile sex offenders reoffend, they are far more likely to engage in other types of delinquent behavior than to commit new sex crimes.

http://www.csom.org/pubs/needtoknow_fs.pdf


Josh never got any professional treatment.

Josh and his wife are committed to plopping out babies every chance they get, and are planning to have as many as Gawd will allow. Even after all the public humiliation of his juvenile perversions, having to resign from his job, losing the reality show (the bread and butter for the family) Josh has recently been busted for pornography and signing up on a web site to help married people cheat on their spouse, and the dummy used his real name.

So tell me, would you let him babysit your children...your grandchildren?
Where do you get your information that he never received professional counseling? You seem to spread rumors you hear instead of finding out facts.
Well I take the info from the parents and they told exactly what they did in an interview. Criticize on that which you will but I didn't read tabloid about it I watched the interview with the parents

TrinityPower

I'm curious as to why anyone would defend and support this guy?

You're not the only one who is ever so terribly concerned for this predator. A lot of RWs are as well as some Republicans, including Mike The Huckster Huckabee.

What about the little girls he molested? Where is the RW caring for them?

For that matter, where are the supposed "family values" nutters? Molesting little girls, porn addiction and cheating on your wife are the family values.
 
I think this kid has been unfairly labeled a child molester and I am hearing many of you already condemning him for molesting his children. What projection!! I also do not see condemnation of the millions of people who are paid registered individuals on this site. I agree with BluePhantom on this that the kid was raised in a home where there was total seclusion from the outside world and the only people he really encountered were siblings. I do not even believe these people went to church but had service in their own home. Humans are social creatures and when that is cut off from them they may do things in a manner not socially acceptable. Think about kids that have been locked in rooms for years. They are just not quite right and do a lot of socially obscure things. I am not saying what he did was ok and it goes against everything his parents and religion teaches
 
TrinityPower

"I think this kid has been unfairly labeled a child molester and I am hearing many of you already condemning him for molesting his children."



What would be YOUR criteria for "labeling" someone a "child molester"?

He is labeled a child molester because he molested children, several times that we know of and over a period of several years. "Kid"? Its true that he was 15 when he started. Did you know right from wrong when you were 15? At what age should people be held responsible for their actions? How about after the years he lived with the kiddie pornographer?

He is also being labeled an adulterer because, by his own admission, he cheats on his wife.

If a child molester would molest his own baby sisters then again when they were older, as well as the family babysitter, you really think he should be trusted with other little baby girls?

What about his victims? What about the children who are being blamed for what he did? And, what about the abuse of the women?

"I do not even believe these people went to church but had service in their own home."

Wow. You really don't know much about this cult. You might want to educate yourself.

Or not.

Your choice.
 
I don't believe they did all they could, in fact, I believe they swept it under the rug.

IF they did everything they claim they did, I personally don't see what more they could have done. They tried to get their kid help in multiple ways, they went to the police (which the VAST majority of parents wouldn't have done), they took measures to protect their kids after the fact, etc. IF all of that is true, what else should they have done? What would you have done in addition to what they did if it was your son?

Believe me, I have neither love nor sympathy for the Duggars. Frankly, I think they are a bunch of kooks. But I am not sure what else there was to do that they did not do...or at least claim they did.

The reality is that if this was not a family who portrayed themselves as so holy and righteous, this story wouldn't even be front page news



They didn't report it to the police for over a year, and when they finally did, it was an officer friend, who is now in prison for child pornography. The place they sent him to for help (another friend of the family who was also charged with sex allegations) was not professional therapy, and all Josh did was help do labor work for the man.

The VERY least they should have done, would be to get Josh and their daughters some professional counseling. They are horrible parents.
They DID get all of them professional counseling. I never heard that the police was a friend I saw their interview, they went into the station and didn't know the guy that Josh spoke to, he was just the one on duty and he didn't condone what he did. The officer gave him a stern talking to about it and told him that it was very serious what he did but what more can they do? It isn't like someone was pressing charges on him.

And just to stir the pot a little I will throw this out there (and no I do not agree nor think this way at all) what was he doing wrong on the adult website? Did he actually go out with someone? Maybe he was just hunting for women to send him dirty pictures and talk dirty to him. If he didn't actually physically do anything with any women is that really cheating? Would it be considered cheating if it were anyone else? I am really interested in the men's take on that especially.

What IS the criteria that is considered cheating on the wife?


Geeze....you really are naive. Maybe you don't think there is anything wrong with belonging to a secret organization that encourages you to cheat on your spouse and spending money to do so, but do you think it is okay Christian behavior? And you think lying to his wife and family while counseling people on marriage and divorce is okay too, as long as he didn't physically do anything with any woman? He claimed to have received forgiveness for his previous crime of pedophilia.....but didn't have any qualms about joining a secret organization that encourages adultery. While this new gig may not be criminal, it certainly isn't Christian behavior, and those that defended him so vehemently and claimed he was healed may have to rethink it.
You seem to read what you want to in a comment and take a piece out that suits you.(and no I do not agree nor think this way at all) Meaning I didn't endorse it but obviously millions of others do it and I do not see them being judged for it.
I'm just going by what you said...."what was he doing wrong on the adult website"? You do realize that he just experienced a terrible beating for his admission to having sexually abused his sisters and a baby sitter (not a sister)? That he evaded being held accountable for it, and had claimed forgiveness and healing from all of his wrongdoing and proclaimed to be a Christian? And, now he is having to admit that he has been lying to his wife and especially to all the people that have claimed that he indeed is a true man of God? A true man of God doesn't go out and join a secret organization that encourages adultery. Undoubtedly millions of others do it, and were they to appear sanctimonious like him, they would get the same chastizement that he is getting.

And while we are on the subject of adultery...have you ever looked up what constituted it from a biblical standpoint especially for a man? Let's just say the rules are a lot looser for a man than a woman.
Maybe society's rules for punishing adultery are a lot looser for men than women, even in Biblical times, but in the Bible, I believe it is the same. There is no exemption.

Exodus 20 New American Standard Bible (NASB)
14 “You shall not commit adultery.

Maybe I will start another discussion about that alone
Maybe you should.
 
I think this kid has been unfairly labeled a child molester

Yeah, poor Josh.........at 15 you are still considering him a kid? Most 15 year old boys know about sex, or surely he wouldn't have been doing what he did considering he was brought up in such an archaic environment.
 
I do not even believe these people went to church but had service in their own home. Humans are social creatures and when that is cut off from them they may do things in a manner not socially acceptable. Think about kids that have been locked in rooms for years. They are just not quite right and do a lot of socially obscure things. I am not saying what he did was ok and it goes against everything his parents and religion teaches

And you think that is reason to not hold them accountable? It's sad that he was brought up in such an archaic environment where the parents think their only purpose here on earth is to procreate, but that doesn't exempt anyone from the law. Josh knew about sex....either from watching his parents or instinctively, but he knew that touching his sister's privates was sexually arousing, and he also knew that it was wrong. Still, that doesn't make it legal, especially since they were minors.
 
I think this kid has been unfairly labeled a child molester

Yeah, poor Josh.........at 15 you are still considering him a kid? Most 15 year old boys know about sex, or surely he wouldn't have been doing what he did considering he was brought up in such an archaic environment.


Apparently fundie cults have a real problem with 15 yo boys molesting little girls. Jim Bob did say "a lot" of their friends had the same thing happen. He also said theirs was "a lot worse".
 
Josh Duggar's scandal has become a nightmare for DJ Matthew McCarthy after his photo was used to create star's fake OK Cupid profile
By Caitlin O'toole For Dailymail.com

Published: 11:06 EST, 22 August 2015 | Updated: 12:33 EST, 22 August 2015

The Josh Duggar cheating scandal has been a disaster for the man whose photo Duggar used to create a fake profile on dating website OK Cupid.

The disgraced reality star, 27, used DJ Matthew McCarthy's snap - which he apparently found by Googling 'random guy' - to create the fake profile.

McCarthy said he's already had gigs canceled after being dragged into the scandal, and is considering taking legal action against Duggar for defamation.


Read more: DJ dragged into Josh Duggar scandal after photo used for fake profile
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Notice the double is a lot better looking than chubby dough boy Josh.
 
I think this kid has been unfairly labeled a child molester

Yeah, poor Josh.........at 15 you are still considering him a kid? Most 15 year old boys know about sex, or surely he wouldn't have been doing what he did considering he was brought up in such an archaic environment.


Apparently fundie cults have a real problem with 15 yo boys molesting little girls. Jim Bob did say "a lot" of their friends had the same thing happen. He also said theirs was "a lot worse".

They're not very bright, either. They admit their wrong-doing publicly and then expect everyone to accept and forgive it because they know of others that are worse, or because their son is just a kid and didn't know better!:eek:
 
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Hackers dump SECOND, even bigger batch of Ashley Madison records
 
Josh Duggar's scandal has become a nightmare for DJ Matthew McCarthy after his photo was used to create star's fake OK Cupid profile
By Caitlin O'toole For Dailymail.com

Published: 11:06 EST, 22 August 2015 | Updated: 12:33 EST, 22 August 2015

The Josh Duggar cheating scandal has been a disaster for the man whose photo Duggar used to create a fake profile on dating website OK Cupid.

The disgraced reality star, 27, used DJ Matthew McCarthy's snap - which he apparently found by Googling 'random guy' - to create the fake profile.

McCarthy said he's already had gigs canceled after being dragged into the scandal, and is considering taking legal action against Duggar for defamation.


Read more: DJ dragged into Josh Duggar scandal after photo used for fake profile
Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook



Notice the double is a lot better looking than chubby dough boy Josh.

Wow.....I wonder how the "defenders" are going to cover that one!:eek: Josh Duggar can do no wrong in their eyes........:D
 

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