My reality - Which took place over fifty years ago now: Jesus willingly laid down his life for the world. He laid it down and then he took it up again. His death culminated when the religious authority of his day (High Priests Annas and Caiaphas) took exception to what Jesus was teaching; one of his closest friends betrayed him, and the Roman government would crucify men to prevent any type of uprising (or as we call them in our time "Protests").
The problem was that the Temple authorities of that day disputed that Jesus had been anointed by God to spread the good news that sins are forgiven. They told him to cease and desist, which Jesus could very well have chosen to do. Instead, he was adamant that God wanted him to announce sins are forgiven and he chose obedience to God over obedience to Temple authorities.
I attended Catholic School for seven years. Periodically we had Jewish rabbis and Protestant ministers speak to us about their beliefs and how/why they differed from Catholic teaching. Ecumenicism was a big deal back then where we learned what historical events led to division among God's people. I came away with a strong desire to begin healing these divisions.
Snarky snipes about "jelly bean" teachers present a "reality" (as you say) that some prefer the estrangement and alienation.
I did not attend your catholic school ----I would guess that you attended sometime
in the 60s or even 70s. My experience with kids who attended catholic school took
place in the early to mid 50s. I walked home from school (about 1/2 mile) ----
at age 5-----the little girls in plaid jumpers from St. ANNE's actually threw rocks
at me and yelled "you killed Jesus" It was a DIFFERENT TIME AND PLACE---
HOWEVER even your reconstruction "the "temple authorities issued a cease and
desist" is kinda IDIOTIC. The "temple authorities" at that time were ROMAN
APPOINTEES. They spoke for ROME and Pharisees---(like Jesus) despised them---
and the feeling was mutual <<<< that is history. Jesus was crucified for attacking
the SHILLS FOR ROME---to wit---the money changers in the Temple courtyard. For
the real outcome of the JELLY-BEAN school education---just read this board. I did
attend Jelly-bean school about a dozen times. (Protestant) That was slightly before the
Ecumenicism program which commenced sometime around 1960 (at least in my
town) An interesting aside---when Pope John xxiii decided that "jews of today
are not guilty of killing Jesus'----the Catholics in my school had no comment---the
PROTESTANTS (several) were INDIGNANT (circa 1963???) "THE POPE CAN'T CHANGE
HISTORY" PS Caiaphas was a Roman appointee---he still gets a very negative
rap in jewish history taught in orthodox Yeshivas -----no mention of Jesus