Again .... the law is applied equally..
Again. no... the law is not applied equally, the law was changed to redefine the definition of marriage which now accommodates a particular group of people who weren't included before because they didn't meet the criteria for marriage.
Because there was no compelling reason to exclude them. Just like there became a time when it was recognized there was no compelling reason to deny blacks the right to marry whites. Whereas there is a compelling reason to deny incestuous marriage, polygamy, adult/child marriage and marriage to animals.
Those are all illegal acts and no one has access for any of those types of marriage.
Again, the law is applied evenly to all and the 14th Amendment remains untattered.
Because there was no compelling reason to exclude them.
Okay, then there is no compelling reason to exclude other similar groups. Who decided that it is more "okay" to engage in homosexual behavior as opposed to pedophilia behavior? Or bestiality? Or S&M? Or any of the other countless sexual proclivities? Why is THAT behavior treated specially? --No reason-- It's a matter of morals, the same morals that opposed homosexual marriage. You've destroyed those morals now and made sexuality a right. Congratulations, enjoy the can of worms you opened.
It's not just a matter of morals, it's a matter of law. This has already been said, probably many, many times on this site, including multiple times in this thread. Pedophilia is illegal. Bestiality is illegal. Homosexuality, at least since 2003, is not. Therefore, two same sex adult partners have a perfectly legal relationship before they decide to marry. If pedophilia is ever legalized, you might have a point. If bestiality is ever legalized, you might have a point. That you are afraid they will seems to indicate an irrational fear, perhaps simply of change, perhaps of homosexuality being accepted, who knows?
S&M is legal, and people who engage in it are and have been able to marry. It's hard to take you seriously when you talk about S&M as though it is illegal or considered somehow less acceptable than homosexuality. What other sexual proclivities do you think homosexuality is considered more "okay" to engage in? Perhaps you are blind and deaf, but let me try to explain : until recently, almost any heterosexual sex acts were considered more "okay" than homosexuality to a large portion of the populace. They may still be considered more "okay", or more palatable, to a large portion of the populace. Your intimation that homosexuality is suddenly more acceptable than the myriad forms of sexual activity performed by heterosexuals (and, in most cases I would think, homosexuals as well) is both ridiculous and without evidence that I am aware of.
If you honestly do not see a compelling reason for the state to exclude pedophilia and bestiality from marriage than you not only do not understand consent, you are simply a fool. I think you are just using hyperbole to try and make a point; I hope it is simply hyperbole.