FWIW, I said this to my daughter just this morning.
I said, people my age reminisce about the 80s and want it back. I don't; the internet is generally amazing, and so are cell phones for the most part.
But what I DO miss is the feeling of us all being Americans in the end. We might have disagreed, even vigorously so, but we didn't need to make EVERYTHING a battle. Even down to the halftime Superbowl show.
However, to be fair:
My fellow conservatives have now taken their place in the battle, but the Leftists truly did start it.
I don't know how to go back.....