No, society has a responsibility to help those in need. And government is the wrong tool for the job. Government is there to make laws and enforce them. Not to supply us with our needs.
Government of the people, by the people and for the people
We the People created that government in order to form a more perfect union
Having nothing to do with the ‘size’ of that government.
We the people decide on the size of government we want
I think you or anyone would be very hard pressed to show that to be an accurate statement.
"We the people" decide whom to emplace as our representatives and, in turn, those representatives get to decide how large or small be the government. Such is the nature of a republic. Even there, however, the elected representatives don't directly decide on size, but rather on the scope of activities the government will undertake, size being merely a consequence of how much or how little the government attempts to accomplish.
And there is the beauty of it
We the People routinely vote out those representatives who go against our wishes
The scope of government has been increasing for generations. If the people disapproved, we would have let our feelings be known
The people like government programs
Majoritarian pablum. History has shown that unlimited democracy is a disaster.
The thing is, "We the People" already decided the scope and limits of government power. And we
can change those limits, by amending the Constitution, but it takes more than a simple majority vote.
If we're too impatient for that, we can cheat. We can elect leaders and judges who will ignore the Constitution. We can 'reinterpret' it to accommodate our current goals for society. But doing that comes at a price. Dependable limits on government power are what make democracy possible. Those limits are what make losing an election a tolerable outcome. Without them, losing to an opposing party can literally be a matter of life or death, and people will act to defend themselves. They won't accept rule of law and sovereignty crumbles. We're seeing that happen now.