Spoonman
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I guess its a combination of both. I think there is definitely something that drives a person to their preference. if I take my own situation, I'm attracted to women. I couldn't fight that, I couldn't change that. its a natural drive that I think I always had. so for most I think it is something you have or you don't. for others, I think there is an element of choice. probably more driven by sexual desire. I know guys who swear they are straight but engage in a lot of 2 on 1 sex with a woman or even multiple sex partners. they have had bisexual relations in these encounters but say they are heterosexual. then you look at guys who go to prison. heterosexual but when your only company is the same sex they are willing to break the rules.